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About a year ago i met a girl, she seemed to be crushing on me, i didn't like her much at first but my love for her grew, she acted weird sometimes but finally we ended up dating for 4 months, it was fun, great and i did start having feelings for her which is why it hurt me when she decided its better to just be "friends" cause a relationship is doomed to fail according to her ( iam not that kind of guy and i told her perfectly clear i can never be truly her friend if i like her and find her attractive ) .

Despite being sad, upset and confused i took a step back and thought about this in a logical manner, she liked me, she wanted to be intimate with me, she's been nice to me... however she also has been giving an uncertainty vibe, and when i confronted her she admitted that i was right and she has no idea what she wants and is always thinking and obsessing over worthless detailes... as much as i liked her i couldnt accept the fact that mentally she was never mine and she never knew if she wanted me or not even when she told me " I want you " .

i can never begin to understand how some people are comfortable being with someone who is uncertain and has no idea whawt he/she wants, its basically an emotional torture if you love someone who has no idea whats going on inside their own mind...

One of the most amazing things about the recent conflict concerning Brett Kavanaugh is that those opposed to him act as if his supporters have a conscious desire to support sexual predators. Is the opposition really blinded to the possibility that his supporters believe in his innocence. Did they, as a matter of strategy, decide to accuse supporters of being sexual assault fans because they thought they could "shame" supporters into backing away from their positions. It was so ridiculously over the top!

I heard one recording in which a group of women were chanting "Listen to me, listen to me." Perhaps that holds a clue to the venomous attacks that were launched against supporters. Is it possible that Kavanaugh opponents were primarily sexual assault victims and they were using this experiencing to relive what had earlier happened to them? Of course, if a woman has a history of having been sexually assaulted, that does not mean that every allegation she hears about someone else should be believed. . . but that is a logical analysis; what I observed was not a logical response.

If the rationale is "this happened to me, so I am entitled to respond in the strongest, most emotional, most illogical manner," I can live with that. . . but I will learn to stop listening to any protest from victims' groups.

What a sad occasion for this great nation!