When we started talking, I was under the impression that she had been with several men, but it had never bothered me, because again: she is one of the few women that I've ever genuinely connected with. My buddies have told me that she's actually been with a lot of men. Like... a LOT of men. I love sexually experienced girls. It really disgusted me that my friends were talking about her like they were reviewing some shitty, second-hand pair of boots on Amazon, but hearing that she had been with lots of men made approach her and talk her differently than I would have if I thought she was more tender hearted.
Anyhow...
She opened up to me one day, about her life struggles, and how she's feeling lost and scared, and how she wants to be "so successful that no one could ever take her for granted again." As we were talking, she sounded like a woman who was reeling from having her innocence and idealism shattered.
She's always been very bold in expressing her interest in me, which made me think she knew a thing or two about men, but now this conversation felt like I was talking to someone who might be mature, but has no idea how to guard her heart.
If I could get an idea for how experienced she is without being too blunt, I could change the way I do things in the relationship. I just want to be a great boyfriend. The articles that I read online were not especially informative.
Any thoughts are appreciated, ladies!
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