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this happened in 1989. Junko Furuta, a 17-year-old abducted after rejecting a boy, then raped and tortured for 40+ days by four teenage boys before her murder. One perpetrator's mother later vandalized her grave, blaming Furuta for ruining her son's life.

Some things done to her by her rapist/killers:
-basically gave her very little food to eat and eventually only gave her milk
- regularly beat her to a pulp
-burnt multiple parts of her body using lighters and matches
-burnt her genitals with a match
-gang raped her multiple times
-forcefully inserted metal rods and bottles into her vagina and anus
-forced her to dance naked in front of them

Before her death, she had become disfigured from the beatings, could no longer walk and had multiple infected wounds.

on 4th January 1989, one of her killers lost at gambling and took his anger out on her. He poured wax all over her disfigured face, forced her to drink her own urine, threw her to the ground, where she began to convulse. At this point, the rest of her killers joined in and bloody beat her up, hitting her multiple times in the stomach. They poured lighter fluid on her body and set her on fire. She made a weak attempt to out the flames before her body stopped moving.
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I noticed over the years that women bring up height excessively more then men do. They not only talk about height in romantic scenarios but with platonic / professional interactions with men as well.

But every time women mentions a man being short, it’s almost always a negative connotation. Even if they like the short guy they will say something like “well he’s not very tall but he’s really cute or funny” or something.

But if a girl doesn’t something else about the short guy (his personality, looks, etc.) they virtually always bring up his height. Especially if they reject the man romantically.

But at the same time guys are less prone to say “well she’s really sweet & cool despite being overweight” out loud. We might be thinking that but we are not allowed by modern culture to say that because it’s “too mean” or something.

I am 6ft so fortunately height isn’t an issue for me. Like anyone I notice other people’s heights in most situations but I don’t immediately factor that into my judgment of people.

I once dated a girl who was 5’ 11’’. Despite my favorite female body type being cute, petite and athletic, her being tall and skinny was virtually a non issue for me. It did make things slightly more complex in bed (shorter girls are more versatile) But I didn’t really care that much. It was like factor number 37 out of 50 for me.

Also I don’t notice height at all in platonic and professional interactions with women or men. I don’t asume a really short guy or a really tall girl might have a negative personality right away. Some short guys do have napoleon syndromes. I’ve met a few short loud mouthed dbags. But overall that stereotype is often exaggerated.

I guess height judgment is evolutionary for females. But women need to understand that men have no control over their height whatsoever.

If you are more attracted to taller men then fine. But if you don’t like a shorter guy than don’t throw out his height as one of his “faults” like he had a choice in the matter.