What’s the worst way someone has reacted when you rejected them?

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Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

I’ve had a few that were very bad in very different ways. Difficult to be clear about which was the “worst”.
There was the woman who started screaming at me in a bar and accusing me of disappointing my mother by being gay.
There’s some irony there. I’m not gay, but my mother does hate me. Ell oh ell!
Anyway, she was so loud and obnoxious about it that i was worried she was actually going to hit me. And more worried that onlookers would not collect the proper context and instead vilify me because a drunk woman was mad she wasn’t getting laid that night. I didn’t really even reject her. We had a nice conversation and i was attracted to her. But she was very drunk and i was not banging drunk women long before it was kool. She was crazy mad, and got kicked out. I never saw her again.
The other really bad one was i got me a stalker for rejecting a woman i was not attracted to at all. It almost cost me my job because she showed up telling people she was my girlfriend and then made a big scene because i didn’t come out to greet her. The boss told me he’d write me up if she came in again. I told him that she was not my girlfriend. I had no control over her whatsoever and he should call the cops if she shows up again. I also told him that i’d sue if he attempted to reprimand me for the erratic behavior of an otherwise complete stranger.
A third woman was a coworker who had recently lost a lot of weight and then started cheating on her boyfriend, who was good to her even when she was fat. I most likely wouldn’t have been interested in her in another situation, but i certainly wasn’t going to have sex with someone so deplorable in my book. Especially since i knew him too. I have been cheated on and i know that misery all too well. Even if she was the hottest woman on the planet, i would not contribute to hurting another man that way. She only made one scene at work, outside the view of our boss. Despite a little scuttlebutt, i never heard about it from the boss directly. And she moved on to harass some other poor asshole. Ell oh ell!

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

The worst I had was a girl that threatened to take her own life when I attempted to end our relationship and although I didn’t believe it for a second I couldn’t dismiss it. I reminded her that a relationship needs to be based on love and respect and not about attempting to emotionally manipulate me when she felt I was choosing against her. I further reminded her that although I was choosing to end the relationship it did not mean that I didn’t care for her but more that I wasn’t right for her and that she needed to love and respect herself before anyone else.
After she agreed to leave , she taunted and attempted to guilt me me for days afterwards with voice & text messages , camping outside where I lived to catch me coming home from work , coming to my place of work , she wanted my attention in any way possible , even negatively at the end , throwing comments and texts of how I’d ’ruined her life’ and ‘only wanted to use her’ to get any reaction at all. It was only after I had no choice at all under advice from friends and my employer that I involved the the police which involved her parent and she was finally made to restrain herself from contacting me by any means. This was many years ago , but as soon as I saw the question my memory went straight there.

It’s not that I still feel emotional over what happened or in any way triggered by it. If anyone I just remember how much I just wanted her to be better.. and I really hope she is on a better place now than she was then.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Pick your poison My experiences with men suck

1 followed me home
1 stalked and groped me (over 2 years high school)
1 just stalked me
1 followed me to the grocery store
1 took me to an unplanned location and pushed his dick in me while I still had my undies on (i was also wearing pad because i was on my period) he came on my skirt and dropped me off near the location he picked me up at (we were suppose to be going on a date to the aquarium, i refused sex)
1 made my job harder
1 increased my BGE bill
2 choked me and force their dick in my mouth

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

The worst is that I have been stalked a few times though nothing too scary happened like he didn’t try to kidnap me, but it is still terrifying.

The other worst thing is just pestering and not wanting to give up, which I can respect up to a point but it happens sometimes beyond the point where it should be clear that I really do not want to keep talking about it.

Finchie40 · Answer

She cried like a child and started stalking me and sending me letters saying how much I meant to her and how much she needed to be with me , that she can’t love the rest of her life knowing I am not her’s , the girl was a complete wack job ,

Account · Answer

He called me a cold hearted bitch and that I should be thankful that he paid attention to me lol. As if I ever gave him any indication that I liked him.

ohsheeT · Answer

Well i have been turned down before or rejected. So I make sure they know the reason why. And I'm nice about it ans sometimes will give a hug. i thank them for at least wanting to go out with me

jennifer_bloom · Answer

A guy tried to murder me after I rejected him when I was a teenager.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

It's a tie between one who had a panic attack then blew up my phone for two weeks and another who got really pissed and went on a rant about how I couldn't break up with her because that would basically mean she "looses" which also as a narssicist I found painfully relatable 😂

So far as a cold or initial approach with little to no build up, I'm very respectful about that sort of thing so I think that's why I've never had a problem. I'll usually tell them a pretty convincing reason why it wouldn't be in either of our best interest and they usually understand.

Braylee · Answer

off the top of my head

I went on a date with a guy, friend of a friend. He basically told me he would have to consider more if he wants to see me again because he thought I might be kind of a slut. I tried to like unplug the situation but he pretty much demanded to know my sexual history or no second date. lol so I took his offer no second date do not pass go. He not only freaked out in the restaurant/bar he also left me at the spot we went for a date he then proceeded to harass me for like a year and told our mutual friends we were having sex.

I'll never go back to that restaurant

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I was probably 21. The girl was 18. I met her at a graduation party. I barely remember talking to her but she figured out where I worked, came in, and while I was on the clock, she came in with a few friends and asked me out in front of them.

One she seemed really nervous, I wasn't used to being fussed over, but I just wasn't interested. I didn't want to be rude and reject her in front of her friends, so I asked for her number and said I'd call her and talk about it when I was off.

I called the next day and said I was flattered but wasn't interested. I ended it with saying I didn't want to say it in front of your friends because and make it awkward for you.

At that point, she screamed FUCK YOU and hung up lol.

aceleon · Answer

i don't know, i never lingered enough to see their reaction or immediately lost interest after rejecting so i don't really remember, they might as well called me all types of cuss words, i won't say i have a short attention span but i have a short interest span and i usually don't remember things i don't have interest in.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Younger woman (late 20's) hit on me. In an upscale wine bar. By walking up to me, grabbing both her tits and proceeding to massage herself while licking her lips. I burst out laughing. Not being mean. It was just so bizarre. The whole room was watching.

She got really hurt when I didn't go for it. 15 min later her entire group of 5 came over and started berating me for turning her down.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Not really a rejection, but a girl I was seeing sent me a text saying we should take things back a few steps and my response was pretty sterile- something like "ok, well I'll just move on then, thanks for all the good times, take care of yourself."

She fucking lost it.

I think she was trying to get me to beg for her to reconsider or something. I don't beg. She FAFO'd that one.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

By begging in front of everyone then proceeded to get drunk and what seemed like a “pole dance” around this supporting column as if trying to seduce me into changing my mind until she fell over. My friend leans into me saying, “Gotta give it to her for trying…” No.

worldscolide · Answer

She tried to have me arrested twice, by reporting that I was supposedly driving a stolen car.. And then she called my employer and told them I was on drugs.. Oh and she told my new girlfriend that I had beaten her and raped her.. All because I broke up with her.. And the reason for break up.. A girls night where she and her friends brought multiple men home.

Fuck that.

Anonymous · Answer

She accused me of sexually assaulting her. Fortunately for me we were both minors at the time. And this was long before the "me too" movement. Also she didn't have a very good track record. Apparently I was not the ONLY guy she did this to. So while it was taken serious ultimately the whole think was dismissed.

This was my first eye opening experience to how petty, devious, and vengeful some women can be.

Katebfun · Answer

Years ago was on a first date, the guy went full on psycho and yelled that he's a very sensitive person. I felt unsafe and had to be fake nice to smooth things over while he drive me back to my car.

Zionne · Answer

Some people take rejection badly they might get angry, insult you or try to guilt-trip you. The worst reactions usually come from hurt egos, not real feelings.

Shehnaz · Answer

Rejecting someone after he/she has already rejected you is damage control to your self esteem, not rejection.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I've never had a bad reaction after a breakup from a ex girlfriend but one of the fathers got mad at me and started insulting me and accusing me of doing awful things that I didn't do. My ex and I still talk on occasion as friends though

McKellar · Answer

Snubbed, ignored, physically distant away from me.

Then again I mostly get rejected anyway, so now at days I just quit talking to women. They try to friendzone me, but respectfully I'm not doing that. lol

Nikki1989 · Answer

I won't discuss that on here, but it ended up with him doing jail time.

bobalife · Answer

called me names… stalking… guilt trip me… act like they didn’t want me or not for me..

Anonymous · Answer

I accidentally rejected her. She continued to stalk me, but it probably is because I continued to give her interest. I think we drove each other crazy.

LiamJHayden · Answer

The usual, "What are you, gay?" type stuff.

Anonymous · Answer

It was a guy that was 24 while I was 16 and I said no, he forced his dick into my mouth and after he pushed me onto the ground and left me a 45 minute walk from my house

Fireguy17 · Answer

I've never had someone react badly, guess i was lucky.

Anonymous · Answer

I had a girlfriend in college and, when I broke up with her, she was crying hysterically while in my dorm and ended up throwing up all over my bed.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

They get mad at me and then try to say they never liked me

es20490446e · Answer

I reject being with them in a polite manner, so nobody really reacted badly.

genericname85 · Answer

they sabotaged my attempts to get with a girl that i actually had a crush on at the time.

DrPepper12 · Answer

"I don't want to be just friends" snotting & crying all over. Ugly nite.

Anonymous · Answer

the worst thing is when they lie and tell everyone that they rejected you. and THEN stalk you to find out which girl you actually do like and get mad about it

Staximus · Answer

I have a girl that has been kind of stalking me for about 29 years

bunniesrcute · Answer

One guy got really mad and showed up at my house even though i never told him where i lived (i think one of my friends snitched)

TallBlonde5 · Answer

“You didn’t have to lie” when I told them I am gay.

Anonymous · Answer

No girl ever showed any interest in me, so I never had to reject anyone directly.

Fashionista7 · Answer

I told them, "No thanks I’m married and They completely lost his 💩.

Agape93 · Answer

Death threats.

Anonymous · Answer

shouted fuck off at me. Happened a few times.

douride2 · Answer

Have you ever been stalked?

Keviaha · Answer

Character assassination

Vegasrunner · Answer

I have multiple women attempt suicide.

qwerty2469 · Answer

I got slapped in the face.

jahaims · Answer

They kept insisting

MasterKS · Answer

She was crying!

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