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i just got in a new relationship and all of a sudden my life just seems to be taking a turn for the worse.
my boyfriend is very loving and the best boyfriend i have ever had. we just started dating a month ago.
in just a week of dating, my abusive ex came to my house randomly and started begging me to take him back after it’s been 6 months of being broken up. he sent me gifts and has been emailing me and getting in contact with me however he can.
a week after that, an old classmate/“friend” i had, messaged me on instagram asking me why i told him to never come by again. he sexually assaulted me while i had fallen asleep while studying with him one time.
i told my boyfriend everything because honesty and openness is important to me and he seems to be understanding, he knew that it really bothered me. i am goin through a depressive time right now and i know i have a lot of emotional baggage that i never expected to deal with. he is still in love with me and is there for me… but sometimes i feel so guilty.

would you leave if you dealt with this with your new girlfriend?

Weve been broken up for 7 years and for a while we were still friends on Snap and I posted a lot of what I did. I moved 40 mins away from our hometown which most people from HS dont go there. A few years ago he asked to meet up for lunch and i declined and told him I moved and Im now in (xyz) of our state. He said he has to pass it anyways and could meet me. I declined as I was in a relationship. I moved to Oregon and lived there for a year and sometimes he'd respond to my stories then he started dating someone but kept watching my stories. I moved back to homestate. I started getting training courses for a certain job which you dont need college for. He blocks me on snap but I deleted him on fb and insta because he kept watching my stuff on there. I met up with a friend who he knew 8 years ago from me and she was telling me how shortly after I returned him and his girlfriend moved to Oregon for a year then moved back to homestate and is 16 mins from my old place (xyz). And his girlfriend recently started working a similar job I got my license to, which apparently she apparently has a degree in nursing and this job is polar opposite of her degree. And her job is 3 mins from my old apartment (xyz). He knew I was taking training for this degree and my stomping grounds by my (xyz) place. I don't know it feels like he is following my steps a bit. It's been about a year since he's seen any of my things so maybe it's just a coincidence cause going forward he won't know what I'm up to. I don't post personal things to insta or fb just snap which he blocked me on. I think he's about 3.5 years into his relationship so I don't know. I think he also just recently added my bestie on fb again but not sure she didn't mention, she just decided to tell me all this other stuff