She wants me to photograph her in sexy clothes/underwear, is this normal?

[Anonymous]

So I (20 yr) have been together with my girlfriend (18 yr) for about a month, we’ve known each other for 2 months, we both got attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and we don’t hide who we truly are to ourselves, we dare oppose society and we are truly ourselves and conversate in full honesty... We talked about what we like and what turns us on and makes us feel validated. She mentioned she would want to take sexy photoshoots in front of my car and other locations in sexy clothing and just pose like a model and have me photograph her. This whole idea turns me on so badly because I love body expression when it’s private between the two of us, but I also feel like that something like this would be a bit odd, because I don’t see her sexually in a way that I only want her for sex or admire her body only, of course I love her that way, but I love her the way she is (personality and traits), and I’m not gonna lie... She’s my first girlfriend, I have insecurities and the whole idea seems very sexy to me, but I’m no erotic photographer, I’m afraid of the responsibility I need to take. I know photos, seen tons of friends had their nudes/erotic private photos leaked. I’m really not one of those guys, this is something I’d take to my grave, despite a rough break-up scenario. I’m just scared of her ever doubting my responsibility.

I’d also mention I have the leadership role in the relationship, I make all the plans and takes the initiative in almost all situations. She’s very submissive and has had a lot going on in her past, bad experience with guys if that explains anything.

I’m just so afraid of accidentally taking advantage of her because of her being so submissive. And I don’t know if her past has influenced this behavior in any way. What should I do to make her trust me in this situation? Because I’m not a f*ckup, I respect her to the core. Advice would be mighty helpful for sure. Is this behavior normal?

[MotorcycleMan]

If she is open to it, take some pictures. Read up on how to take good pictures, especially lighting, editing and posing.
Use her phone or give her the SD card depending on the camera you are using, but you can leave her in control of the photos. You can share them when you are together, and then she can take them with her.

[Asker]

My sister has been a photoghrapher and I borrowed her camera... I bought my own microSD because god know what she could recover if I were to give her SD back. I believe this could turn out great actually😋

[Anonymous]

You’re doing great. Let her know that you will keep these photos between you two, and that you can and will delete them if she ever asks (for example, if you break up, she thinks they’re ugly, etc). You aren’t taking advantage of her, she asked and initiated it, but respect her if she says she doesn’t want to do it anymore.
This behavior is normal, you want to respect her.

[Asker]

Okay yeah, I’ll let her know before anything happens. I really like the idea, I’ve always been into photographing/video editing and generally quality stuff. I hope this goes well, because It could be a fun thing.
Thanks for your opinion! :)

[Opinion Owner]

It would be a fun thing! You’re doing great, I’m sure she truly trusts you! It is a very intimate thing.

[spartan55]

Dude, you are questioning this? Ever heard the phrase "don't look a gift horse in the mouth'?
Take the win and stop being wishy washy.

[soe11]

• You have to respect her choice and desires.
• You should fulfilled her request wit honor and dignity.
• Take pictures best possible way. all the best and be proud of your girlfriend.

[Massageman]

If you have to ask, you probably do not want to do it.

[Asker]

Not at all, I got shocked and excited. I thought I hallucinated when she said it, been telling myself she didn’t just say that, but she did. Just worried she think I treat her like my sex-slave or something. But she said it, so I will do it. And I can’t wait to do it. Just never done something like this before.

[Iron_Man]

Do what you have to do

[Asker]

Sir, yes sir!
*Pulls out 8K Camera*

[Avicenna]

Don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with

[stratford]

Enjoy the experience

[In_Trance]

Normal? Or do you mean common?

[Asker]

Normal as in the sence ”Does girls usually propose that idea”

Common as in does it usually happen, and I believe it does. But the girl proposing that idea?😅

[2021biguy]

That sounds like fun, do it if she wants you to.