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Around 2 weeks ago, I went out with a guy I met online for the first time. We video chatted prior and spoke online prior. On the first date, he asked me on a second date but did not show any affection on the first date. He texted on a somewhat daily basis, however, they were not back to back or in depth. We went out a second time yesterday and he didn’t kiss or hug me again, he ended up asking me out to dinner again and texted me last night telling me he had a good time. I brought to his attention before having our second date that I was curious if he did like me because he hasn’t been texting me very often. And here is our conversation prior to meeting up yesterday:

Me: Can I ask something?

Him: Always

Me: So you say you're interested in talking to me... so why don't you message often? You only talk to me when we left off of a topic or following up. Are you just not interested in speaking more consistently to me or do you have nothing to say?

Him: I am but I guess I stopped of it was hard to text you while you were at work I didn't want to get you in trouble🙄. Or annoyingly chatty. So then what did you end up doing on Saturday if you don't mind me asking🤪.

Me: I see where you're coming from and I know we have only gone out once, I am just used to talking on a more consistent basis, which is something that had me weary. And I rested. Wasn't feeling my best.

His last text was last night after our date and I haven’t heard from him since. I don’t want to sound crazy or desperate. He did text me a bit more often yesterday morning, after I sent that message about lack of texts.