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Many people when in their 20's tend to hold on very strongly without compromise to what they find physically attractive and tend to not pay much interest in other traits (such as loyalty, honesty, sanity, abusive behavior, controlling behavior etc).

So you may find a girl who would not compromise and only want to date guys over 6'0 or who were taller than them and basically did not want to give short guys a chance until she finds herself single in her late 20's and 30's because she puts too much fluff on the superficial and less on substance that would make a relationship healthy.

[In the movie, I can't hardly wait. Preston (guy above) obsessed over Jennifer Love Hewitt (Amanda) and only realize he was chasing a dream when he found out he really didn't know anything about her, and they had no chemistry. And the girl who was his friend that he ignored for nearly the entire film was the girl who was right for him in the end and lead to a stable relationship.]

Similar, guys who only wanted to chase after the hot girl because they thought doing that would help improve their self esteem and they continuous get rejected, cheated on, or dumped because they did not look for other traits other than the superficial.

Even in cases where men and women have preferences and find X race least attractive. Many people are willing to come around in their 30's and give someone of that race a chance at dating/relationship.

But with everything in life, as we move on through we accumulate emotional, mental baggage and become jaded about relationship. Many of these people who are giving more people a chance to date them and commit to them but they are damaged in some way or the other.

Poll Question: Do you think people who find themselves in their late 20's and 30's because they held onto superficial traits in partner and were picky deserve to get into a relationship with someone who they would not have given a chance for most of their 20's?

I normally wouldn't post a question like this. I recently got out of a serious 2 year relationship, and go back and fourth about if I'll find someone again. Ithe was hard to even find my ex. And I'm wondering if guys just don't like girls like me nowadays.
To start off im mexican/Italian/American
I have natural dark brown hair and eyes, I'm on the pale side of the skin, am 5'3, I don't have model body, if anything I have basic childhood scars, faded stretch marks, I don't have the biggest lips or butt but have a decent 38D on my chest, long hair, and I think I have a decent smile, I don't have a wash board ab stomach but I'm not fat, not even really chunky tbh.
Personality wise I have my flare, I like trying new things, I'm told I'm very funny, Im book smart just not street smart, I am very artistic and crafty, I love the outdoors, to laugh, and have goofy or intellectual convos. But I'm not perfect, I am sarcastic at time mostly when mad, and I can be a little snappy, and with certain things, I'm not patient. But I'm forgiving and like to have strong bonds. And try my best to be excepting and not judgmental.
I'm not an "easy girl" if you know what I mean. But I don't believe I have to wait till marriage I've only had one partner in the past. I'm open minded in between the sheets. I'm just not easy tho.
Other then these things I like to read watch horror movies. I listen to all types of music and like the outdoors. I don't play sports I kind of have 2 left feet but I try. I can be out going but I can also be quiet. I come from a family of five I'm the youngest. I like animals, and I'm open mineed
That included I am agnostic, I believe in a higher power but don't believe in committing myself to 1 religon. However I will respect anyone elses.
I want a career in business/art, and have a family one day, I am also very loyal to anyone who is loyal to me.
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