Search Results: ask her out now or wait

How do I cope with this?

I've been talking to this guy for almost a year now. We're not dating, he doesn't want to be a relationship but he wants us to be friends. I travel 2 hours at 8am in the morning to the other side of the island so we can...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is this a soft rejection or I'm overthinking?

So, I've asked girl out to go grab some drink next week, she texted "Yes! Absolutely! But I first got to get my studying under control" to which I replied with "Cool, let me know when you are free". And I wouldn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend ghosted me on my birthday?

I have been dating this guy for over two years. He’s been a good boyfriend previously and has always bought me nice gifts and often tells me I’m beautiful and stuff like that. I’m not as physically affectionate to him and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Ok is this a coincidence or Is this girl waiting for me to arrive now or am I over thinking this?

So just morning something unusual happened, I come into work as usual it's 7am and today for the first time ever I see the girl thats been staring at me and gets nervous whenever she sees me that works in the same...

KazDillinger

Xper 3 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

My ex always causes problems then when I react he makes me out to be the bad guy he left out of state and got mad I wouldn’t w8 for him to come back?

He left because he has a bad problem of bashing me at any job we work at so I told him I didn’t want to work with him anymore and asked him to leave but I changed my mind and felt bad so I told him he could stay now he is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

How can I positively confront this dilemma?

Short version: I’m not doing good in life (very long story short). My dilemma is do I keep feeling sorry for myself and wait for help or do I get out of this slump by myself and resent most of the world population for not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Was I the other woman?

When I met my now ex boyfriend he was still living with the mother of his son, he told me that they were separated for more than two years but lived together for financial and parenting reasons. When he decided he wanted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was this my fault? Or did he exaggerate on situation?

I didn't hear from my guy for 2 days that I been dating for 2 months, he texted me today saying sorry that his baby momma has been stressing him out with drama and he went to gym. He asked me to meet him at bar near his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I can’t tell if the guy I been on two dates is still interested?

A paramedic that I’ve been seeing for 2 weeks and knows my mum from work. we get along really easily and the first two dates went so well and he was such a gentleman (candle lit dinner that he made etc) this was during...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I have a right to be upset?

I (21 f) am sorta seeing a guy (50m). We were coworkers who turned into friends and now sorta romantically involved. In the beginning when we first met, he didn't have a wedding band on so I stupidly assumed he was not...

AvaXox

Xper 4 Age: 24

Break Up & Divorce

What do I do without her now?

This is about a girl named Leah. So it’s like early 2022 and me and this girl named Leah admit that we like each other. Next week she comes over to kg house and we are each others first kiss. All is well for a little...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do I do? I can’t live without her. What do I do?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

She wanted to split a snack... was this just being nice?

We were on a break at a conference. She waited until everyone else had left and then asked me (kind of in a whisper) if I wanted to split a danish. My initial thought was that this was a sign she wanted to maybe kick our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did the Police request my contact information when I called them on a drunk friend? Am I in trouble with the University? Did I do things right?

Honestly. After what I just experienced tonight I don't know if I’ll ever be able to see my friend in the same way again. It was just really fcking bad. We were hanging out in my friend’s room and by the time he had his...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

How do you date and find a boyfirend?

I’m asking because , I’ve been looking for a new boyfriend. I go out recently men have been looking at me, I’m at liquor store and a guy told me hello. I was at a restraunt and Teo single guys were next to me and my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My crush sends his friend to talk to me?

Why does my crush send his friends to find stuff about me? His friend asks questions about me, like how I’m going and how I’m feeling. Does he go back to report it to my crush? My crush doesn’t talk to me, only stares at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Am I in the wrong? PART 1 THIS IS A LONG STORY, SO THE PEOPLE THAT STICK AROUND AND READ THIS THANK YOU. ALL OF YOUR OPINIONS ARE GREATLY APPRECIATED?

So me and this girl met each other online and we started talking for about a week and everything was going well, we were calling each other almost everyday and face timing, cut to a few days later and she lost her job and...

JaseMich

Xper 3 Age: 25

Is this an unhealthy friendship?

My best friend of 11 years asked me to be her maid of honor. I've witnessed several instances of her partner being abusive such as screaming and cussing at her, threatening to leave, telling her without him she'd end up...

Anonymous

(30-35)