Was this my fault? Or did he exaggerate on situation?

[Anonymous]

I didn't hear from my guy for 2 days that I been dating for 2 months, he texted me today saying sorry that his baby momma has been stressing him out with drama and he went to gym. He asked me to meet him at bar near his job since he started next hour. I said sure and went to see him for an hour. We were having a good time until he tried kissing me but I had a strong drink in my mouth I put my hand up telling him to wait until I swallow it but he got offended. After that I told him he can kiss me and I said sorry I had drink in my mouth. He kept saying whatever. So the girl bartender was near by after and I told him you can kiss me now and he said no that I could have kissed him when he tried. I got upset and said okay? He said to text him when I get home so I said no I won't unless you kiss me now. We ended up arguing outside about that and I told him I didn't want to cause an argument I just wanted him to wait for me to swallow my drink. I wanted to be an adult so when he walked away I waited 20 min to text him I apologize that I wanted to have a good time and didn't mean to argue with him. He just said "its all good 😌" does he really mean it or is he mad? Was it my fault that argument came up?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to determine exactly how he feels, but it's possible he was initially frustrated by the situation but later accepted your apology. Arguments can happen in relationships, and it's not always easy to assign blame. It's important to communicate openly and honestly to resolve any misunderstandings. If you want to make sure things are okay, consider talking to him calmly and discussing what happened to ensure both of you are on the same page.

[Asker]

I forgot to say when he got irriated after we stepped outside he tried kissing me so I kissed him fast and rolled my eyes then he said wow whatever. So is said "why did I bother coming to see you if we are going to argue right now?" And that's when he walked away to his job. I just hate when that happens. Usually we laugh but I hate that bar because I feel he always talks to the bartender and I feel like why am I here

[Asker]

I just texted him after the apology that I got home and I dont plan on texting back unless he does

[Asker]

I meant im thinking to myself I don't plan on texting again unless he does

[Lisia]

I'm shocked about how childish he reacted.. I think he might be okay now depending on how he acts of course