Search Results: getting guys to notice

Am I just different from people my age?

I've noticed now and realized I attend to have friends that are a lot more older then me. Most of my friends are age 40 an over. I enjoy listening to their c9nversations and stories about their life experiences honestly I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Is he going to try and make a move on me?

There is a really attractive guy at work and he’s easily probably the best looking guy there and he’s younger so other women have noticed him. He cooks in the kitchen and sometimes will take over for the normal head...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he really into me?

I got divorce a year ago. To help financially I took a lodger. He is a 22 year old guy. We got on very well from the very beginning. Then I noticed some flirting from his part but me being old enough to be his mother I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he going to try and sleep with me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What do you suggest I do?

I've been dating this guy for about 4-5 months now. I've known him all my life but we were out of contact for many years. Now that we started dating- it feels like we have been in a relationship forever. As time goes on,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

To say something or not?

So I’m pretty sure it’s over with the guy I’ve been seeing. The last few months, I feel like we’ve been getting a lot closer when we meet. The chemistry is unreal. Even others notice it when they see us together....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Will I be able to cancel this tomorrow morning?

I signed a theft thing while getting my car on accident because the guy was a fast talker but lol but this is what it says on the paper work for canceling but it’s worded weird: CANCELLATION The Warrantor may only...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Self confidence shattered?

I’m a very self conscious guy so i’ve been working on myself because i’m just tired of being invisible. These past couple of months i’ve been getting compliments and girls approaching me which is rare for me now i feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Need advice on what to do?

Hey I have started to notice that a lot of people don’t really reply to my questions now or give advice can see why point is that’s okay and understandable to be honest. anyways I have some update about my best friend I...

FlameZee78

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

Consistent dates & amazing connection. but suddenly slow replies & silence?

so, I've been seeing this guy (multiple dates per week) for the past month. We talk everyday and have (or seem to have had) the best chemistry. constant laughs and things seemed to be progressing... until a few days ago ,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

I’m not confident?

I’ve never really put much thought into it before but now it’s really getting to me. I’m feeling extremely sad and unlucky. I’m feeling that way because I don’t like the way my life is. Ever since I started at a new...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Should I go out with him again?

So I went on this first date with this guy that I’ve been talking to for a little. I get to the date and he’s just staring at me lol. I sit down and he’s clearly nervous and kinda shaky. We had a light fun convo getting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What does it mean when someone says that I’m a tryhard or I’m trying?

I notice many times that a girl that is why her boyfriend would see me getting into or out of my car and then say to him “he’s trying” In what way am I trying? I hardly ever put effort in my appearance when in public, I...

Tomisworthless

Xper 7 Age: 31

Guy's Behavior

Is he Not interested anymore?

Well this guy and I talked for a while. We hung out constantly as well. Well I wanted a relationship and he didn’t due to family issues etc. He basically had a lot going on but I won’t spill all his tea. He said he liked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I feel like nobody wants to be with me but people (usually guys) react in a jealous way/ need my attention when I start talking to others?

I'm quite shy and introverted, but I can initiate or hold conversations well on one-to-one basis. I often feel left out in a group and am alone most of time. But I've noticed that guys stare at my direction, look annoyed,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Do these people hate my kind?

Just trying to figure out why Mexican men and guys are so rude to black girls like me. I'm not attractive to them but a lot of times they will give me a dirty look no matter how old they are. I work at a retail store and...

whydidyoukick

Xper 2 Age: 26

Relationships

Has your intuition ever been wrong about getting cheated on? Is this signs he’s sleeping with someone else?

I’m with this guy it’s been 6 months I won’t go into too much detail about him. The past 3 weeks I’ve noticed every weekend, he disappears. I’ll call him, his phones off or does not go through. We have plans he ghosts me...

athenarosexxx

Xper 2 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

Am I in the wrong for leaving my girlfriend and having her charged with a felony for selling my family heirloom truck?

So, for a bit of context: My girlfriend and i have known each-other for around 4 years, but started dating during 2021. That car has been passed down for GENERATIONS by the way (Its a 1972 Ford F100) my grandpa owned,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a whole group of guys stare at you as you walk by?

So today I was just getting off the treadmill and starting to head back to my fitness class when my schools baseball team came by to wait outside until their meeting started. As I walked passed them, I noticed that quite...

thatshydork

Xper 7 Age: 23

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls keep staring at you but quickly look the other way when you look back in their direction?

Im really confused sometimes and even feel uncomfortable sometimes when I'm having a drink or when I'm at a party when I notice girls that are staring at me but look away quickly when I look in their direction. It happens...

glennos89

Yoda Age: 36