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I'm considering laws here and want to know how you want to die.

Slow... you have to die by your own failure and bodily failing... which is days or years of fading. You can get pain meds during it all (assuming looters don't steal it all and cut off your supplies), but no-ones allowed to kill you.

Quickly - if you decide you want it over with, you are allowed to ask for help to die faster.

Maybe this is offensive with the current state of the world and George Floyd being in effect, suffocated to death before the world. He didn't ask to die, choose to die, nor did he deserve to be killed.

But this is also reality for me right now. I'm forced to watch someone who wants to die, for life is over, die slowly with no other option. I'd end it faster if I could, it is their wish... and their wish is denied by law.

We always want what we don't have.

And maybe we'd all be better today if we can find something to be appreciative of... instead of focusing on what we don't have. Or maybe we have more than we think we do.

With everything I read on here... I'm actually really surprised at the responses in regards to trust issues. It's as if you bring up the insecurity, they'll turn into a conversation about their entitlements... telling you that they deserve privacy (which people do), and then paint you out to be insecure (which you are), or maybe even controlling when you just want to feel better.

BUT... with infidelity occurring at an over 50% rate in marriage (according to most studies I've read) , I think it's only right to alleviate your partners anxiety when they are having trust issues. It's okay to be insecure once in a while. It's okay to have trust issues once in a while. In monogamy, attraction will happen outside of your partner. Whether it's a coworker, or platonic friend. These things are bound to happen in a long term relationship, so my suggestion is to be with someone who empathizes with you when these problems come up. Someone who actually wants to help you feel better instead of attacking you for it and making you feel lesser for it.

My girlfriend and I have both experienced some trust issues with each other in the beginning considering we've both been cheated on at one point. I opened up all of my social media with her and gave her the pass-code to my phone. Granted, she didn't even look- but I wanted to let her know I had absolutely nothing to hide... and she doesn't have to worry. I genuinely wanted her to feel more relax and less anxious about the idea of committing into a long-term relationship. She wanted the same. We're both in such a better spot today. We worked through it together, and I feel as if most couples should operate in this way.

It's strange to me that the default solution on GAG to this problem is to demonize your partner and suggest to leave them. Anyone else here feel the same?