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I was locking eye contact with this girl for a couple weeks, a year ago, and she was smiling, until I saw what appeared to be her boyfriend, so I never bothered approaching her. I see her a few times a week and initially I'd still check her out here n there cuz she's really attractive, but not lock eyes. I don't wanna deal with a girl who's taken and I feel bad for the guy. Looks to me she wanna cheat and I have zero respect for cheaters.

So I started avoiding her. But everytime she's around, she'll preen, set herself up to be approached even when boyfriend is nearby. She will walk by, come near me, stare stare stare, etc. She clearly loses all her cconfidence in front of me and becomes nervous. And when I ignore her, basically reject her, her face turns red and looks like she is about to cry. I thought I'd do this several times so she can move on, but she does this month after month after month. Wtf?

This been happening for almost a year. She's cute but a boyfriend is a big turn off. I don't know the dude but he looks like a cool guy, looks wealthy, and he's jacked. They talk, joke around, laugh a lot, look like a healthy relationship. I'd bang her, even try date her long-term if she was single. She looks mid 20's.

All the women I've rejected directly or indirectly, or shown disinterest in, they don't linger on for more than a couple months but she still at after 11 months..

Why she does this? And how do I get rid of her?

Looking for advice especially from other women.

Putting aside all other factors other than the loss of a loved one, do you feel that one is more superior than the other from an emotional standpoint? Don't count financial loss, kids involvement, etc... I'm talking strictly about the loss people feel during a breakup or divorce. Do you see one as emotionally more damaging than the other?

My mother and I were having a disagreement on this topic and I decided to do a poll to get some outside advice.

My mother believes in a more spiritual/supernatural explanation for why she feels marriage holds a stronger emotional bond than a relationship without the title. She's Christian so she believes that God created man and woman to "become one" when they are married. She says that I can't fully understand it because I'm young and I haven't been married before. She says it's something someone just has to experience.

I agree with how divorce can most likely have a greater effect than a break up because most of the time dating doesn't hold the same responsibility that marriage does. The title of marriage and the fact that you're signing yourself away to a huge life commitment emotionally and financially automatically gives it an advantage. But I suggested to her that it is possible for a couple that's going through the breakup of a serious relationship to have the same emotional damage as a maritally divorced couple. Most long term dating relationships do explore/carry out the same duties that make up an officially married couple.

To me, marriage is just a title. I think how close a couple is during the relationship has wayyy more to do with how they'll feel once separated regardless of label. I explained that I think there's a logical explanation for why divorce might typically have more of an emotional effect than dating. There's gotta be a quantifiable reason as to why people often feel a greater connection when they have the marriage title.