Search Results: experience of dating

I really want to find a really pretty nice girl, get married and build a life. Am I really handsome? No. Do I get female attention? No. Do I have a big wallet 💳? No, I’m in university. Do I get rejected? Yes pretty much. I don’t feel I have anything to offer. I find dating a depressing experience. I dunno 🤷🏻‍♂️

I don't think it's really possible to truly become emotionally mature until anyone has started to live independently and forced to make compromises, communicate, and collaborate effectively with others that they don't like. So I kept it in the adult range, as it's not too likely that anyone too young is considering consequences it's relatively easy to avoid those things before becoming an adult.


For the men: what age range have you noticed changes during your day to day interactions, dating, work, etc.

For the women: same as above, or with the additional of your own testimony, and what life occurrences would you say has resulted in the biggest growth in emotional maturity? That last part is the most important.


This question isn't asked out of malice, I'm just curious. I've seen women younger than me be very considerate of the thoughts and emotions of those around them, meanwhile others older show contempt for anyone that goes against them in some way. Is there a point that most flip, or is it a life experience (and men and women live very different lives, hence splitting the question)?