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This girl and I have been friends for 9 years. We area both 21 and live at home. She knows my entire family. They have mixed opinions on her especially my parents. My parents are never mean to her though, and try to help her if she needs it. We have got in 3 major blowouts in the past, which resulted in us not talking to each other for several months at a time and blocking/changing numbers. Anyways, I try to hang out with my friend at least once a week but she currently does not have a job and her parents stopped giving her money so I’m having to pay for whatever we do that’s why I limit it to once a week unless she wants to take walks which are free. Recently, I started talking to a guy on a dating app and we hung out a bunch and I’m talking to him everyday and call him my boyfriend, I’ve known him for a month. I think my friend is jealous. She’s a pretty blonde girl and guys stare at her in public but she gives them Death looks and then they approach me. I decline. My friend wanted to go to a club tomorrow night but it’s in a bad part of town so I said no. I suggested going to the derby with my aunt and boyfriend and she yelled at me because she knows I have a family reunion on Saturday so I’ll see my aunt then and I care about my boyfriend more than her and she tried to call me but I had to end the call to talk to my boyfriend and she’s like I’m glad our 9 year friendship means nothing to you and I need to get my priorities right and I’m rude af. She’s also been persistent texting me but I was on a date earlier and she went off on me. I told her to try the dating apps and she doesn’t have any luck because she says all guys want is a quick lay or they stop talking to her and yadda yadda. She wants to go to this bar tomorrow night (we were supposed to go to the club) and I said I will see because I plan on going to the derby and she flipped out. And anytime I text or call my boyfriend when she’s around she gets all bitchy towards me and I have to walk away.

I’ve seen young guys and older guys say this crap. Imagine how ugly and desperate you have to be as a person to need money to get someone to date you. You guys tell each other to get used for cash. Yet complain about gold diggers. Yet y’all complain about the divorce rate. Money only attracts gold diggers. It does not make the woman want the guy himself. Its literally the money that they want. They will date and do anyone. If you can’t get the women you want with a regular damn job, then obviously they don’t want you. Then when those type of women finally marry the guy, divorces his ass, and takes all his stuff, guys complain. Makes no sense. You guys don’t see women giving each other such stupid advice. Many guys are gold diggers who can be gotten with money as well. Yet we are not telling each other to be used for cash cause we are Not Dumb! There are lots of poor men with gfs and families. I’m sorry, guy or girl, if you need money to get someone of the opposite sex to date or fuck you, ya lame.