Search Results: how important is money to women

I don't have enough exper to post a link, but in a large scale survey in the UK... 78% of women voted a stable job as the most important trait in a man when looking for a partner. In several US studies, a stable job also always came on top in state surveys (though not by as big a margin as in the UK). Seems like women really are more attracted to money than to men.

This is something that baffles me and admittedly may have very well skewed my views on relationships and women's ideals.

So let me set the background. Multiple Surveys regarding Japanese women or Asian women in general were done to determine what they value most in any potential partner.(Keep in mind this is mostly native asians)

Now Many of them flat out said that the most important thing to them is income and status, and more often then not this is usually at the expense of anything else. Whats more most of them have claimed that they will flat out refuse to date someone who makes less then 5 Million yen or the rough equivalent of 50k U. S Dollars a year, again at the expense of anything else they may potentially like about the person.

But that's not the worst of it, See more often then not despite the fact that the man makes all the money (Keep in mind most of these women interviewed want to be stay at home housewives) The man pretty much has no say about how its used or spent, with the female dictating how it's used and I mean completely to the point where she decides how much money the man can have to spend for himself, which can be as low as 10 bucks a day.

So we basically have a situation, where men are generally viewed as walking atm machines, I'm just trying to wrap my mind around this and see how this is even remotely fair. Does anyone see anything fair in this because i don't...