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honestly I see so many men say they hate women who wear makeup, dress up, or get their nails done etc, Only like natural beauties, I get liking natural girls I get it wanting a natural beauty, but it’s strange to me why so many guys would hate a woman who puts effort into her appearance rather than just wakes up gets out of bed then chucks anything on with zero effort, why do you think so many men say this? I’m not talking about “high maintenance” I’m talking just a woman who takes care of herself and makes a effort what is unattractive about making a effort? Like I notice men don’t seem to have a problem about women going to the gym or taking care of her body or weight but I don’t see why a woman dressing up or making herself look nice is a bad thing because it shows they care about themselves in the same way if they work out or put effort into their bodies, surely it’s a good thing. opinions? (I know this isn't all men by the way, it’s why I put “some”)

The guy I'm in a sexual relation with told me that he 'almost bought me something' so he asked when is my birthday.

As I've told him that we can see each other for only one last time because I want to. I want to move on to better relationships etc this was just a sex vibe. He tells me that :'I never buy you something nice when is your birthday?' so I'm like no you don't have to. I told him to keep whatever it is he wants to do for me because I feel like he is being very manipulative or I don't know what his trying. He always ask me :'Dont you wanna stay with me until you found the one?' he asked me this tonight aswell. So based on what he was asking me I can see his not genuine or doesn't see me as anything more but he keeps telling me he almost bought me something. And he says even though we gonna do it for one last time he will still buy the gift.

I'm wondering guys? Girls? We have been seeing each other for almost two years now. He tells me he is sorry for the other years he missed. But he feels like he wants to buy me something this year.

Thoughts. Opinions?

So the reason i ask this question is i wear a lot of pink and girly clothing and dresses, i like nice jewellery and pretty things and on a lot of dating sites and peoples opinions seem to think i'm spoilt or self centred from my appearance (i wouldn't put my photo on a site like this) but it makes me confused as i'm very friendly and kind and work very very hard for what i have and haven't had a easy life or things just handed to me? does this appearance or dress sense make people assume? even if you don't think like it do some people assume this? photo is just a example (i wouldn't wear the puffs on my head for anything but fancy dress lol)