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Yes, kind of a random question. I am asking you to stereotype by age.

I think most guys who have talked to a bunch of girls can agree with me that there are some generalities, but I'm sure my experience has been different from other guys. I'm sure most of you haven't talked to that many girls, and if so, probably not a big age range, but even if you haven't, I am curious what you think happens.

Please explain if you have a good strong opinion.

I find this to be an interesting question, because of certain characteristics or stereotypes people attach to someone of a certain prettiness level. The level of intellect, ego, faithfulness etc.

also some people might be intimidated by a 10

so it kinda comes down to what kind of personality you create in your head for someone that looks a certain way

say you meet a very good looking guy or girl, the general stereotype is that they're probably very popular and outgoing with an instagram of 1k+ followers posting pictures almost daily etc.

But when they don't have instagram, it would seem that people are generally taken aback by it and even find it weird. Would this be a scenario you would prefer, or see yourself dating, or would you prefer them to not be active on instagram?

if you'd prefer them to not be on instagram, please elaborate on why.

There is a stereotype that men are more visual and usually have their minds made up with 30 seconds of meeting a woman if they are interested or not.

To a certain extent that’s true. If a girl is a 5 or below to me physically I am not going to be romantically interested no matter what her personality is. That doesn’t mean I won’t treat her respectfully and be friendly (if she’s got a cool personality). I won’t be rude if she happens to show me interest (will politely decline if need be) But I can’t develop feelings.

But I am thinking that many women are more superficial than ever nowadays when it comes to looks (except if they guy is rich and/or famous)

That’s not to say they shouldn’t have standards. I don’t expect a beautiful 22 yr old woman to not reject a chubby balding 35 yr old guy. But I notice that the less attractive a man is to a woman the more difficult, challenging and bitchy she will be to him.

I know this because I’m my 20s most women considered me a 8 to 9 physically. I’ve gotten older and while I am in great shape for my age the truth is most women see me around a 7 now. They are more difficult and rude in dating situations. They ghost more. I am held to a higher standard on my behavior on the first date.

I don’t expect everything to be willy nilly easy like it was when I was 25. But the fact that: “first impression (looks) = likeability = respect” is depressing.