An attractive guy/girl, with or without instagram?

[Aaron93]

say you meet a very good looking guy or girl, the general stereotype is that they're probably very popular and outgoing with an instagram of 1k+ followers posting pictures almost daily etc.

But when they don't have instagram, it would seem that people are generally taken aback by it and even find it weird. Would this be a scenario you would prefer, or see yourself dating, or would you prefer them to not be active on instagram?

if you'd prefer them to not be on instagram, please elaborate on why.

with instagram is better

without instagram is better

[TheUniqueOne96]

Without instagram is better

I'm on there myself, but I don't really use it and if I do, I use it for the same thing I use Facebook for, just watching random stuff that comes up on my feed.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I've mainly dated guys that didn't use Instagram so that feels more normal to me.

I myself only use Instagram for art and hobbies and such, not following lifestyles or models.
So oif he was the same, then that would make sense to me.

[Bethany22]

No instagram. I don't need everyone knowing his existence.

[Avicenna]

Without is definitely better

[Aaron93]

any particular reason?

[HorggleThorp]

I don’t care if my boyfriend uses Instagram. I’m not going to date an untrustworthy cheater anyway.

[Aaron93]

Wouldn't you find it more healthy for the relationship if no significant social media presence was involved? Isn't it distracting or time consuming? Or perhaps even the lack of privacy?

[HorggleThorp]

Oh yeah, totally. I don’t spend much time on social media and I do find it unhealthy. My boyfriend alike.