Do I have feelings for him? why am I having so much trouble getting over him?

So a while ago there was this guy I matched with on tinder. He was attractive enough for me to swipe right on, but I still wasn’t 100% attracted. I sometimes just swipe right on guys even if I don’t find them 100% attractive, because if I’m gonna be that picky, I would never be swiping right on anyone, & therefore getting no matches. So I give some a chance. Some of them also end up being a lot better looking in person which is why i think it’s worth giving a chance to guys that you’re at Keats 80% attracted to.

Anyway, we matched & started chatting & it turns out he was friendly & an overall decent guy to talk to. After a day or two, we followed each other on Instagram & continued talking on there. I was glad he gave me his Instagram rather than his Snapchat, because most guys on tinder are dodgy & sneaky & give you their Snapchat, often a fake one, so I was thankful.

We discussed our intentions & he mentioned that he wasn’t looking for a relationship because he’s busy studying his masters & whatnot, & yes I know what that means. That he would get into a relationship with someone else more suitable if he found one, but I’m not that girl, so he just wants to temporarily have fun with me. At the time, I was okay with that as long as he also chatted with me. So we met twice, & he looked really good in person, he was exactly my type. We slept together twice & both times were very enjoyable, & we also cuddled & chatted afterwards which I enjoyed & appreciated. He kept telling me how much better I looked in person & how he couldn’t wait to see me regularly.

However, he stopped talking to me after the 2nd time. After 2 months had gone by without us talking, I messaged him to ask how he is. He briefly replied with short neutral answers, & then he deleted me 2 days after that. I was a bit disappointed & confused, it was unexpected for me. I still can’t get over him for some reason & I can’t stop thinking about him. Guess I was just really attracted to him?
Do I have feelings for him? why am I having so much trouble getting over him?
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