It's been four years since my ex-boyfriend and I broke up. The reason why we broke up is because he ended up cheating on me while he was away to college. At first I was livid but eventually I had forgiven him and move past the cheating. About two years later he called me out of nowhere and said he was really sad because his current girlfriend had done the same to him. He wanted to know if I would come down to see him and just hang out. I went down there and hung out with him and I started having the same feelings all over again. Before I left we starting making out but that was it. I eventually drove back home that night and never heard from him again. He told his mom that I was too pushy and that he didn't like me like that. It turned out that he was using me in some sorts. When I had gone down there he took me to a restaurant that his ex-gf worked. At the time I didn't know and still don't know if she was working that day and he was only trying to make her jealous. Anyways, I have been dreaming about him ever since then. I have had many relationships after him and am currently in one now and we are expecting a baby. I feel bad when I dream these dreams because I'm in love with my current boyfriend but I always have a nagging feeling on why it is that I keep having dreams about my ex. What could this possibly mean?
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Your ex still has your soul. It has been a year since my ex left me, and I just actually had a dream about her last night. I walked into a room where she was, and all I remember is hugging her and we were both crying. She took my heart, played with my mind, and I don't think I can ever love again. (Even though I've been sexually involved with/dated other girls since). She still has my soul. Maybe not my heart, but deep down inside all I want is to be with her.0
hunney...all you need 2 do is move on...start lookin for guyz...n if you 'fink you still love him thn talk 2 him...tht'll help you a lot..!0
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I've heard a lot of people talk about similar experiences. It happens to me sometimes. I wouldn't worry about it. I don't think it means anything. Maybe you still think about it because you feel like things should have been different with him. He didn't treat you well and you might still be sad about that. I think that you'll eventually stop thinking about him so much. He will seem unimportant once you're in another relationship that you're happy with. Good luck.