So why can women say things like this now a days but males get demonize?

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So on FB/Instagram I see a lot of girls be posting up things like this. Confirming that women care about height and face , abs OVER personality definitely and how they are just as superficial as men.

 
There is even an instagram WHICH 100% confirm that women do chase and CREEP on GUYS they like. Females being shy and afraid to approach is massive cop out. If she's making you wait 3+ dates for sex, she's just not that into you. 

Here is an instagram account with 800k followers made by a girl. Most of commenters are women who basically show their true anamlistic side for guys they find attractive.
 

Yet somehow if a male had take sneaky pics of a female without her consent and shared it amongst his friends. He would be labelled a creep and ostricized by gag community/society in general. Male objectivation is ok appearently in society.

Hell today men are not even suppose to have standards and when we do the same meme shit back at women we get call out as being shallow creeps.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Women have created a societal standard where they have zero responsibility. They can say and do anything without consequence. But if you do the same thing to them they get offended and play the victim. They are essentially the minds of children.

"Men are perverts" - "Women are sexually empowered"

"Men are all rapists" - "Women can't rape men"

"A drunk male has to be responsible for his actions" - "A girl with alcohol in her system can't make good choices, it's a guys responsibility to do the right thing"

Men judge women on appearance - "NOT OK, shallow pigs"
Women judge men on their: Appearance, Wealth, Power, Job, Strength, Penis size, sexual ability, etc. - "Women can have preferences"

Man calls woman a slut for her sexuality - "NOT OK, female sexuality shouldn't be shamed"
Woman calls man a pervert, pig, scum, player, dirtbag, creep, slimeball, loser, no dick, etc. for his sexuality. - "Because male sexuality is aweful"

Man is sexually forward - "Creep, potential rapist, loser."
Woman is sexually forward - "Comfortable in her sexuality, girl power".

Male speaks out about sexist bias against his gender - "You Misogynist, Your claims are now irrelevant"
Female speaks out about fake sexism towards gender - "We don't need facts or logic, we are victims, you are oppressing us by asking for proof!"

We need to take back our society.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Be quiet or you will be censored by feminist fascists.
Don't point out how hypocritical some women are. That will expose the whole 'I'm a victim and men are monsters' narrative that is necessary for women to avoid personal responsibility.

Good job feminism. 20 years ago almost all women were proud to be a feminist. Now scores of them are running from the movement because they don't want to be associated with crazy fascists. Now the movement is a joke and not to be taken seriously. The final great irony is it is not men that are destroying feminism but feminists themselves. I guess allowing whatever batshit emotions you feel at any given moment, to direct your movement will give rise to hypocrisy, disfunction and fascist tendencies.

Mustachekitteh · Accepted Answer

I thought the dudes joke with "When your weight starts with two hundred." Was pretty funny. I become extremely pissed off when a bunch of 5'0" or shorter chicks say they want a dude who's 6ft. That's not realistic in making things being easier to do in a relationships. Honestly I've now come to a conclusion that if a chick wants a dude DRASTICALLY taller than her. Then she's ashamed of her own height and hates herself. So she wants to be knocked up by a dude he's 6ft so her kids won't suffer the shame she feels. Again if they truly do think that. It's really sad and pathetic.

If your around 5'0" and the dude if your height or even 3 inches taller. That's still good and doesn't mean he's ugly. I'm 5'0" and my boyfriend is between 5'4"-5'5". Honestly I think that's hot and makes being with him even more perfect.

Yes I have dated a dude who was 6'0"-6'1" and I hated it. Trying to kiss was a pain, a lot of sexual positions was a horrible almost impossible pain, trying to look at his face was a pain, etc.

nana9898 · Accepted Answer

That is the double-standard in society. This is similar to how guys who are promiscuous, sexually active (the ones who sleeps with many girls) are considered normal, while girls who behave the exact same way are considered sluts.

Besides, there is this notion in society that guys are extremely visual, and that they usually are able to sacrifice good personality in exchange for good looks in a girl. While girls are more willing to sacrifice looks for other qualities, such as money, status, or personality.

Of course none of these notions are universal, but they are applicable to the majority of guys and girls. For example, you often see a beautiful woman with a not-so-attractive dude who is rich. There are many stories about women who marry average-looking men who have great sense of humor or other great personality traits. But you rarely the reverse, right? It is uncommon for guys to be seen with women who are way down their league in terms of appearance.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You're generalizing a small group of women for women in general. Are women superficial? Um duh, but so are men. Are there ignorant young teenagers in the world? Yes, but there are ignorant young boys too. Also, so what if women like a type. Men like a type too! Deal with it. You're just looking for someone to blame because you've dealt with a small box of experiences and have looked at a small portion of opinions that social media has displayed. You're justifying this reasoning with firing back that this girl is fat and therefore "giving her shit" as well. How hypocritical.

RobAtomic · Answer

They have always been turned on by what they consider to be sexy... Men however are the perpetrators of most of the crimes that involve sexual actions and this has always been the case. You don't have to worry about some depraved chick jumping you in an alley... most men would see that in a positive light and agree to do it every Tuesday... The idea that women have similar desires and like to see men that turn them on is treated differently because when a guy says something like that there is a real chance of some one getting raped... its just not cool...

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

well that last girl got demonized didn't she? lol

and it also happens more often than you think. there are guys out there who intentionally go out looking for superficial girls, and then putting them in their place in the funniest most rudest shittiest way possible lol. and then post it all over the internet.

JRICHARDS1996 · Answer

If you want my opinion, I don't consider any of it objectification regardless of the gender. Men like pictures of sexy women and vice versa. Though I do agree that there is a bit of a double standard. You are far more likely to hear men accused of objectification or supporting body-shaming/body-image simply for liking sexy women than you are to hear it when it is the other way around.

Rawrzz · Answer

Lol @ "When her weight starts with 200". Everyone has preferences.

The idea is that men won't be harmed by these things: that they are strong enough to endure anything, or should be, and if they're not, then they're just pansy whiners. In essence, that they just don't care. Whereas, women are default assumed to be weak flowers who need to be nurtured and protected, harmed by everything. So, they can't handle things like being called fat when they're fat.

That would be the reason why.

Klara-Hitler · Answer

And that was the time when fatty recognized the society still needs feminism, and joined the society of ugly fat triggered feminists to protect the dignity and the survival of landwhales.

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

Hot guys are into looks Hot girls are into looks Sky is blue  Grass is green

IainG81 · Answer

We don't really get called out though. Many women are judged on their looks by men. I don't see this problem in my life.

blondfrog · Answer

I think its always been like that its just that now women post about it on social media. Its clearly sexist, every other country is dominated by men except Murica.

aliceinwonderland69 · Answer

It is so funny when men get a window into female experience they go crazy.

Remembermyname4 · Answer

Because society has different expectations from each gender.

echoaj · Answer

The memes with "when his height starts with 5' " gets to me. It makes me feel bad because i'm 5'5 which is pretty short. :/

BrownBoyBrownies · Answer

Posts a height post. ''When your weight starts with two hundred'' LMFAO, Bitch got burned. What a burn, apply the whole antartica XD

Bandit74 · Answer

Lol that last one was gold 😂

Bards · Answer

Power swap Get over it Both genders do it

IceEverest · Answer

Double standards.

So why can women say things like this now a days but males get demonize?

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