Why do women do this? like im happy, now I just want to distinguish whether this is a normal thing or an aspie thing? cuz she has high functioning?

[trees101]

why do women do this?

Her: i can't do this!

Me: ok let's say close friends, and keep thing open so when ur ready, we can go back?

her: no, I don't think i can love u like that and i never want to date again!

One month later: we work as a team, at some company

3 months later: She quits and moves

A week without talking

Her: I want things to be completely platonic (meaning she is putting me in the friend zone)

me: ok

Two day later we're at her sis and my ex is trying to flirt with me

A week go's buy

Me: I'm confused and worried about the future between us.

Her: It's ok, we'll work on things, and I'll tell you when I'm ready.

[melanieeeB]

That's how I see it: she isn't interested but she was scared at first to really say it, she probably also didn't wanted to hurt your feelings and went with the friendship thing to be nice, already here folks don't stay friends, for both parties involved, stay just friendly but leave the other person in peace and move on

[trees101]

OK that's what i thought it first but her body language and what she's saying is completely different.

[melanieeeB]

What does her body language tell you?

[trees101]

like she'll intentionally go out of her way to get close to me or touch me, and she does all the little things that normally would indicate that she is interested.

[melanieeeB]

In that case I would ask directly what she wants, communicate what you think and if she still keeps saying no, then let it be and get away.

[trees101]

OK, I will take your advice and I will directly ask her. It's just super confusing to me because She has done this type of thing in the past. But she does have Asperger's, so it's completely. Viable that she would change her mind and Like I stated before, what she is doing is indicative of her being interested. especially because she doesn't like touching men. . . . Unfortunately, some men have tried to take advantage of her In the past.

[devilish-cutie]

she doesn't know what she wants and seems to have some issues with herself

but she told you numerous times she is not really interested, she didn't do anything that much to claim she really wants you

[Guy13]

They are emotional creatures. It’s Judy how they are and there is no changing them. It’ is very difficult for us thiugh. Price of the scoot scoot. 😎

[trees101]

understand that. but like i have never touched this woman inappropriate once without asking. but when we broke up, she got paranoid and thought i was going rape her or something. just because she heard some crazy story.

[Guy13]

Women are women... all we can do is keep our nose clean and hope to find one that is decent.

[Avicenna]

It’s definitely not normal

[Iron_Man]

Wishy-washy confused