Why do women do this?

[Grimraed]

Talked to this girl for a little over a month. We talked on the phone once on a Tuesday. Things were great, and we hit it off good. The next Wednesday she asked if we could talk on the phone again. She was only able to call late, so we stayed up late talking the night before. I was beat due to my job needing me to be up at four. The next day talking was going well. She said she didn't sleep well the night before and that she had a lot on her mind. That night, she initiated sexting. I thought no harm could come of it, so I obliged. After that, she was very weird. We had one more good day of talking on Mother's Day. After that, she started leading me on acting interested but kinda not. Finally, I had a straightforward convo with her. She said she didn't want to get attached too quickly because it leads to her obsessing and that leads to bad mental spaces. Then she asked me about my ex. Like how I broke up with her and her reaction. Then she was weird again. 5 she wanted to call sometime and get to know me more. Then canceled. Just why? Lol.

[Kha0tiic_xo]

She seem's to be confused about what she wants! I will say that if she was honest about becoming obsessed and things like that, it's a damn good thing she told you and was honest about that, obsessed girls can be mentally screwed and make your life a living hell. Unless she meant it in another way. Though she did say it would mess her up mentally. Try talking to her again and be straight with her, like what you've said on here. Ask her why she's okay to talk some week's and then acts distance and awkward the next, and that you enjoy talking to her, so to tell you what's up and if she even wants to continue talking anymore.

[Grimraed]

Yeah she said obsessing makes her worry about her looks which leads to her starving herself. She messaged me two days after saying she was going through some stuff and some about what she has been doing. I replied, and nothing after that. So, I don't know.

[Anonymous]

Well the last part could be because of anything. Maybe she was busy or something came up. But odd she didn't explain it though.

[Grimraed]

She's been flaky ever since tbh. After she canceled she messaged me two days later saying she's just going through some stuff and about something else she done. I replied and she sent me one more message I replied to. Nothing so far, so I don't know.

[HelpfulGirlll]

No idea, everyone's different.