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As a woman myself sometimes I have a very hard time understanding other women, I only take around 20 mins doing shopping for outfits but my best friend it took her 2 hours and I kid you not I waited for that long. Some of my other friends are not very honest with their feelings. Not bragging or anything but guys found me easier to understand because I’m honest with my feelings, I don’t sugarcoat stuff, I’m very straightforward with what I said. I found window shopping a big waste of time unless I have to buy items I really need due to shortage. I made big changes to my lifestyle, I was so happy I spent most of my time doing more important things. Men were easier to understand compared to women as a woman myself.

I loved to complain ever since I was in high school over things I couldn’t control and they were not big matters. I complained about why I need to pluck my eyebrows, shave, wear contact lens, wear makeup like most girls. I even complained why must the train and buses break down at the wrong time. I also complained about why all the things I liked always get sold out. Then I realised I complained way too much and for what? If I don’t like to do something I can choose not to do it why complain? Even bad things happening to me is also not something I could control.

I didn’t follow society’s beauty standards and I chose to be different from most girls and women. I know I stand out a lot but if my choices make me happy, why not? I felt that people’s negative opinions of me for not “fitting in” didn’t matter at all. I’m proud to be myself and not because society expected me to look like. Only the right guy for me will be by my side since I’m different from most girls and women, I know he will come to me I just have to wait. I didn’t realised I’m lucky in a certain way yet I took my life for granted. I’m not a hairy girl then I stumbled upon an article written by a hairy girl, frankly speaking I felt bad she has to go through those struggles hence I learned to understand people with struggles much better.

And I also have to try my best to be a good woman if I want to attract a good man which was not that hard for me to be. I learned to be more compassionate, sympathetic and understanding. Good news: I had finally stopped complaining unnecessarily and learned to accept life better! If I can do it you can do it too!