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I'm dating a girl. We doesn't call ourself girlfriend and boyfriend It's too early for that.

We have been on several dates. But she already thinks I'm too fat. Well she doesn't say the word fat. But she gives me hints she think i'm too fat. Like "I think you eat too much food.", "You would be a great santa claus.", "Maybe you should have one or two days per week when you don't eat any food."

This girl is skinny and yes I am a little bit overweight. I am trying to loose weight but it's not easy. And the eval words from her mouth are not helping.

We started talking to each other on Facebook, before we met each other for the first time She had (and still have) many pictures with great texts. Like "age and height and weight are just numbers."
She already knew when we met I was not skinny. She was fine with that. But it's easy saying that on internet.

All of her ex boyfriends are skinny.

She said I'm the most adorable and wonderful guy in the world, really funny guy who makes her laugh. When we are not together she said she miss me a lot. But we are only seeing each other one day per week. I don't think she miss me as much she saying. We living in the same city and can see each other anytime we wants.

I want to have sex with her, but she doesn't want that now. She wants to wait until we are official boyfriend and girlfriend. I think she only saying that because I doesn't turn her on.

Yes I can keep loosing weight but it's not easy. And I don't want to be skinny as her old boyfriends. But she like skinny guys. I actually don't know why she wants to be with me. Sure she likes my personality. But I wants to turn her on.

She always had skinny boyfriends. I am the first guy she's with who is a little bit overweight. But she doesn't want to have sex with me. And I don't like how she talking to me about my weight.

One side of me is saying "date another girl who likes you as you are." and one side is saying "date her and see if I can turn her on."

For about 6 years I have known this girl, and before I get started just know I am not sugarcoating anything or heart broken or love struck. I have already come to the conclusion the problem I have with most females is due to my sophistication at age 20 and qualities I have makes them feel intimidated by me. A little about myself, I would spend a Friday night reading a book about physics or something and not care, I drive a expensive sports car that bought myself, take care of homeless animals and I am a vegan. I do not boast about my money, my car or my “strange” interests in music. Most dudes my age wanna be the next biggest rapper or ball player and I’m just happy in my own skin idc who thinks what.

There is a girl that if you saw us you would say we look like we are married. She is the only person that can get under my skin so much, infuriate me yet make me have a big smile on my face. I can have her ready to punch me in my mouth but it’s like she can’t just resist getting my attention and making jokes with/about me and teasing me. I tried once to get with her she told me no and dated some loser (and I’m sorry to say it but that’s really what he was. No job. Got high all day). She dates dudes like this all the time. Trust me I know she’s not keeping me around for validation, I know what that feels like. This girl has all her Bluetooth connected to my car, always wants to ride shotgun and when we did drive around (just me and her) she would talk to me for hourssss.

So obviously my question is what the hell? She will swear up and down she doesn’t like me at all when everyone has told me “that girl definitely likes you y’all should date”. She will turn me down if I tried but dates dudes that don’t care about her. No matter how many girls I sleep with I cannot forget about this girl. Oh by the way our friend circles are LITERALLY the same exact people. I am so angered by her I avoid her now but I don’t wanna cuz I want her and she clearly wants me.