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I'm southern African and I have bad experiences with Eurasian people ( Europeans, Asians, horn Africans, north Africans etc.) full and partial descent except for Indian women only. I just can't relate to them and actively avoid platonic and romantic relationships with them because I genuinely believe African women shouldn't mix with them, they shouldn't even be friends.

I'm even planning on teaching my children to avoid interaction with Eurasian people unless they absolutely have to, I don't even want my kids intermarrying or being friends with them at all and I seem to have disgust towards African women who are friends with Eurasian people except for Indian women, because they seem to be very nice and I've heard less bad things from Indian women about Africans.

Do you think I'm wrong for wanting to willingly segregate myself from Eurasian people? If not, how can I be distant without being mean? If so, how can I be better without crossing my comfort zone?

I'm all for self expression and creativity regardless of age, race, social status or gender. As a black woman who loves bold colored long lace wigs I get a lot of shit from people. I get harassed for being an individual, does that sound ok? Does that sound normal? So me being me is apparently a problem for people. Does that give the right for people to talk about it? They're weirdos and losers. Apparently their esteem is extremely low because they're so afraid of stepping out their comfort zone because of what others think.

You know it's fine if people wanna be bland and boring but please leave those alone who are fine with being unique and comfortable in their skin, period! It takes confidence to do your own thing. Period.

I am not living in 1925 like many others, I live in 2025. I don't live in the twilight zone like others, I'm living in the modern world.