Is she playing games?

[deonRay]

Alright, so this is a little out of my comfort zone cause I'm not usually the guy that's online asking for advice. But there's this one little lady that's been giving me a lot to think about since 2013. So we have a friend group, and she and I are part of the same friend group. I met her back then she was cute & I instantly just fell in love with this girl. I wanted her from the jump and I just haven't been able to shake her off me since then. For a long time, I had to hide the fact that I liked her cause I don't know why it was but I couldn't figure out how to approach it with her. she started calling me her best friend over time and everyone saw us as best friends. She would call me over when she was scared or upset and I would always play the fix-it role. Then she would fall asleep resting her head on my chest but it was all platonic even tho I held her through all of her troubles. I accepted the best friend title over the years but my feelings never went away they only grew stronger. It became worse because over the years I had become intensely in love with this girl. My true feelings were startin 2 show and multiple people in our friend group started to call me out on it. I'd play it off and deny it because I didn't wanna make it weird between us. Alright, so I decided to just come clean. @ first, she was distant when I told her and then we reconnected and I tried to shoot my shot at her. for a while, we had a little flirty vibe going on. The more I tried she would pull away. Finally, we became a couple. Well, I ended up getting her pregnant and we now have a 7-month-old together. We were even talking about marriage but now she just broke up with me and is acting distant again. now she's mad about a Facebook friend of mine who randomly added me and I accepted the request. I don't even know this girl on Facebook AT ALL. Just a random pretty girl who added me and we have commented on a mutual post. She left me over this & is now trying to co-parent as “friends” .

[MzAsh]

She wanted an out , probably has for a while, and found the first convenient reason.

[deonRay]

What do women genuinely want? It seems like they often desire commitment, but when we men finally offer it, they sometimes don’t fully appreciate or trust it.

[AmeerX]

Tell her to get lost. She is playing you since 2013. Tell her if she doesn't want anything more than friends then don't waste your time. Don't be a schmuck

[Avicenna]

Sure sounds like it’s games

[AI Opinion]

Alright, lovebird, you’ve got quite the tale here! It sounds like you’ve been on a rollercoaster that could rival the best soap operas. Your dynamic shifted from "best friend" to romantic partners with a baby. Her pulling back could be a classic red flag of either feeling overwhelmed or insecure. That Facebook friend might be just a small flame to a bigger fire. Trust and insecurity issues can sometimes brew under the surface. Communication is key—let her know she's the star of your show and you’re willing to sort things out. And remember, love requires patience and understanding. You've got this! 💖

[In_Trance]

yeah