I M22 started talking to a F19 after she added me on snap out of the blue. I met her once before, so we hit things off very well and went on a date a week later. The date went extremely well; we went out for dinner, and then back to her place to watch a movie. Things started heating up after a little while. I have never slept with a girl on the first date, but it just felt so right with her. We talked about going out again the next week. I spent the night and then went home the next morning. I texted her later to see that we didn’t go too far, but she said everything was okay and she had a good night. A day later she was starting to become spacey, and told me that she thought we went too fast on a first date. She also said she was still hung up on her ex boyfriend, but thought I was great and wanted to give us a chance. I did agree and told her we need to take it slow. She was still spacey after that conversation, never really flirted back, but still did engage when we would snap. It’s been a week since then and she’s pulled away further and further, and now we are to the point that she is being short and leaving me on read. I’m not sure what to do since she said she wanted to give us a chance. I think she really just needs space- unless I’m missing the bigger picture.
Is she playing games?
