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It makes me laugh when I see a full-grown 25 year-old man having a crush on a coworker or something, like dude, highschool is over, you're not an emotional teenager anymore.

In my honest opinion, having a crush definitely is an immature thing, for two main reasons:

1- When a person has a mature mind, they work on themselves and evolve to the point they're happy with what they are, they know their worth and fall in love with themselves, they will have full confidence to ask their love interest out and see where it goes from there, if it fails, they think to themselves "it's their loss, they missed a great partner" or "we're too different anyway now that I think of it" and they shrug it off easily, not a love interest anymore because their time is valuable, next!
(Which is why it's important to love yourself before loving someone else)

2- Mature people tend to think more logically, even when it comes to emotions, they can control them well by looking beyond the emotional field into the logical one to slowly eliminate any negativity that comes to mind, so they'd eliminate the feelings of weakness and fear then propose to their love interest, if it doesn't work, they eliminate the negative feelings of rejection, eliminate any further feelings for their crush because logical thinking, and they shrug it off as well, NEXT!

And if they can't crush on someone because of other reasons (religion, commitement, etc) they think logically and know it isn't possible, or they weigh the losses and gains to know what to do, or they use that restrictive time to work on themselves, then finally and most importantly, get over it.


A strategic mind which isn't so held back by emotion and can have strategic thinking to decrease any losses of valuable resources is a fully mature mind.

I am homeless
I am a nomad
I have no job
Currently no vehicle

And I have no intention of changing any of those thing.. Except the vehicle part... Though id rather have a motorcycle...

I'm also extremely unconventional in my mannerisms, mentality, personality, and lifestyle.
I am entirely and quit unapologeticly myself.

While I dont have the worldly hallmarks of the ideal match. I am extremely kind, patient, understanding, loving, and honorable. (Though I do have my own sense of what honorable means) I have immense emotional control and maturity. I am fully confident in myself.

Im also intelligent, creative, resourceful, and capable. I survive anywhere I am. Be it wilderness or city. And I take pretty decent care of myself.

Personally I feel that I posses those traits which make for an ideal partner. But I can't operate in society, or really by its rules.

I dont like a comfortable life. I like adventure. I like risk and not knowing.

So I'm just curious.. Am I someone you would consider undatable?

(And this one is mainly for the ladies. But guys, feel free to drop your opinions too.)

And be fully honest, lol
You're not gonna hurt my feelings.