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So I started dating this guy. We've really only gone for coffee nothing sexual. I find that he's quite passive aggressive and not necessarily open in his communication.

I don't like passive aggressive people or people that aren't good communicators. Yes I get not everyone is a good communicator but if you're not going to communicate stuff don't turn around and blame another person as this guy is done for not understanding what's going on or getting confused and frustrated.

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I have kept seeing him simply for the fact that the potential benefits, like we have similar interests we have similar mentality similar upbringing, could potentially outweigh the communication Style. Maybe he needs a little work.

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Anyway last night he said that he had to work late. That doesn't make any sense because in his job the only time he works late is when it is an emergency situation. But what it sounded like was just casual everyday work and that usually ends at 5:00 or 6:00... 7:00 at the latest.

He was still out until around 11:30 cuz he text me saying he was going home.

Anyway this morning I found out his Communications style has changed it's a little more standoffish and not as engaging as usual. Like I said he already had ticks against him that in my mind were quite severe/ this passive aggressiveness and lack of communication.

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But I don't know if I should reach out as usual communication or if that will come across as desperate or just you know wait and see what he does

Like I don't get this guy, he's very passive aggressive which really makes it confusing to understand if he's being honest at times or just full of b*******, however I like him in general. But when he said that he told his parents that he was with a friend at a town it's like am I wasting my time was this dude or what. Like he says he'll never forget to get together and this and that, but as I said he's quite passive aggressive and there's a lot of undertone to what he says. Like he'll say something and then he'll correct himself and say something different if you call him out for it even nicely