Okay so I have this friend who is autistic that is nice. I mean REALLY nice. Super sweet, and no offense passive aggressive and she doesn’t stand for herself, even sometimes some of her relatives say mean things to her and insults her. She’s naive which is pathetic because she’s 26. She always jumps in to do favors, helps out which is great but it’s getting too far that she’s being taken advantage of. She has this other “friend” that is using her. I mean. She is using my friend for money, rides and to buy her things. He even paid for her meals. I’ve been trying to tell her that she’s being used and that girl isn’t her friend and honestly, that girl doesn’t really like her. My friend kept on dismissing my opinion and warnings. Even her parents and family have tried to tell her but she is quite frankly stubborn!
I said some unkind things about that girl but hey my friend has to know the truth. She got angry with me but I don’t care. True friends tell the truth, even if it hurts. I’m not apologizing for telling her the truth. She isn’t speaking to me right now because I told her the truth. She keeps going back to her and I don’t know what else to do anymore. I’ve heard her said some nasty things to her saying she is abusing her and using her a an ATM machine and was joking about it. She laughed but she knew it wasn’t funny and she knows she’s being used but is too stubborn too admit it. She was insensitive about her brother’s death and said she is so glad to have her brother and sister right in front of her face. I couldn’t believe her! 😳
I don’t know what to do anymore. This girl is toxic and to put it bluntly, a bitch and a sl*t (she admitted that she uses guys for sex). My friend won’t believe me and I just wanna slap the reality into her. Please help.
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All you can do is tell her how you feel and let it go at that.
I did tell her that but she JUST won't LISTEN. She’s so stubborn and she is too naive to see that she’s sing used.
Being used I mean.
Then their is nothing else you can do.
So what am I supposed to do then? My dad told me the only thing I can do is to watch her do down and get screwed up so bad that will have to snap her out of it and realize the truth. That sounds cruel but I guess I have no choice.