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Trust is an important thing for all of us, it builds friendships, relationships, business deals. You agree to licenses when purchasing houses or software. It may be put in contract. But there is still a reliance on trust. So what if its broken... shattered. Can it be completely regained?

Im not refering to small trust, like telling your child not to eat a cookie and they break it. In this instance im refering to relationships.

Many, many years back, almost 10 or more I think, my father cheated on my mother, had an affair with another woman and they split up, did not divorse but they werent together, was the toughest time in my life. I despised my father for what he had done and swore to never do it to others. My mothers heart was broken. Now in todays society its EASY to shout and scream and insult, its easy to tell someone "Dont forgive them, you are weak if you do!" Really weak? So this person who has been married for almost 20 years, and dated a few before that with their now husband is weak for not instantly being able to move on.

I say this because after about 5 months of the insident my parents got back together, my dad was remorseful and devastated in his choices, you could see it. Now it took years for me and my mom to fully trust him against, but I can say for a fact he has tried his best, does nobody deserve another chance, again its easy to accuse and claim he could again. Guess what, everyone could again, so could my mom, but they haven't. I still struggle with trust of my father, but I see the love he has for my mother, and im well aware of the stress they went through during that time. He didn't wake up and decide to do it. There were factors on both sides. Not blaming my mother, but there was a tension that broke, but now that tension is gone.

So back to my question, do you honestly deep down believe trust can never be regained, nobody wants to be betrayed, and those who do are the weak ones. Easy to hate, hard to forgive. What are your opinions?

Seeing this guy the last few weeks, sleeping together, felt like there was a future. Found out he was on a dating site still and talking to other women. Past two days we have been fighting non stop about. Personally for me I think if you like someone you just don't talk to others realtionship or not. Why would anyone put themselves in a poistion of many. That is just my opinion other people are obviously different.

We both agreed we were stupid not to discuss what we both wanted, we did just assume.

He really lost his temper with me and shouted that it wasn't like he was having sex with them. That I was the only person he was sleeping with and dating. For the time being he is not giving up talking to other women if we were to get serious and it started progressing then he wouldn't be even on the site or talking to anyone. He kept telling me I was overreacting and if I kept it up accusing him of sleeping with other girls I would be getting blanked. I told him goodbye after that. Then he sent me a message saying that I was a really great girl and he never set out to hurt or upset me. He was sorry for never talking about where we were going. He really didn't think after a few weeks id be upset that he was still talking to others.

Maybe because I don't talk to multiple people or date them I just can't understand it. I'm am really sad about it we were really good together. And I wasn't looking for any kind of realtionship so soon I just wanted to keep dating I just presumed there would be no others involved.

What would you have done in this situation? Should I have kept on dating him and told him in another month if we can't be in a serious relationship then that's it.