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Search Results: why the guy has to pursue and chase the girl
Girls, if You Don't Like a Guy Who's Asking You Out, TELL HIM!
I'm getting sick and tired of asking girls out and hearing,"I'm kind of busy this week/the next couple of weeks. I'll let you know when I'm free!" response. Literally every girl that has given me this excuse, has never...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is this perfect girl rarely wanted by guys?
Hello! So, I have a friend. She's 22. She has had boyfriends before but all of her relationships owed a lot to her own pursuing of the guys. Of course they did like her but she did most of the job anyway. Her boyfriends...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, do you find a girl less attractive if she has a lot of guys chasing after her?
i was talking to a guy who told me he wasn't attracted to me and so i asked why which he then replied by saying "almost every guy i know has liked you at some point which i find unattractive because I just liked girls who...
chelsfaith
Xper 5 Age: 26 Women are NOT Attracted to Jerks!
Nearly every male has been pushed to ask this question at least once in their lives, I'll admit I have too (more than I'd like to think). "Is it because he's more muscular?" "The girl's probably shallow" "I can do...
lordpokerface
Xper 5 Age: 30 Is it something that I should've pursued?
i am 24 going on 25. i have been in one relationship and there was a lot of respect and compassion but he never really fought for me. left me with a shattered heart and really high walls. i live a whole-hearted,...
new_me
Xper 5 Age: 34 5 Helpful tips for men to navigate through dating
Now an unspoken agreement between men and women in dating is this: 1. Men entertains the girl 2. Girl enjoys man company and girl will want commitment 3. Girl will give out sex to acquire commitment. For most guys women...
BubbleBoy69
Editor Age: 33 Sticky situation w/ FWB?
I dated a guy for a year and fell in love, madly. Things got rough and I suggested friends with benefits not knowing how dangerous that is for emotions. To try and keep him for the past two years I have been strictly...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Why do women stubbornly feel that a woman should never chase or pursue a man? as in, its the guys job to be the initiator, make the first move?
I don't get it, almost 2017, humanity and society is much more modern than ever before, why do you think it has always been and probably always will be the mans job to make the first move and be the initiator? Why is it...
Anonymous
(36-45) When you're comfortable with someone, does it REALLY matter who texts first or plans dates?
The whole thing is a filtering system. If you're dating someone, whether for a month or a year; if you feel truly comfortable and the girl mirrors just as much as interest.. who cares who plans what? You hear from every...
Anonymous
(30-35) Sometimes I wonder if every guy out here has some type of low self esteem. If women regarded sex like guys do we would say it's sad wouldn't we?
Consider it like this: There's the typical low self esteem fear of rejection thing but then there's the guys who are actually seen as doing well. For instance, a large percentage of "functional" guys would...
Splithead
Xper 5 Age: 33 Guys Need to Re-Evaluate the Girls They Go After
It seems to be that many guys feel like they should have the girls who are tough to get. Or maybe they’re inadvertently being taught that they need to try hard to get the girl. Either way, it sends a lot of guys into a...
Guys, Do you dating women/looking for a S/O is a waste of time?
It has come to my attention that women are the ones with the issues. The minute you show interest they'll more than likely exaggerate the claim and make it seem like you're the one with the problem. If you didn't pursue...
colourz
Xper 6 Age: 31 It's official, I've been ghosted... how do I get over the pain?
I've been asking a lot of questions about my boyfriend on here recently bc his behavior has been a little off. About a month ago he got mad at me and didn't speak to me for 5 days. Eventually he came back around. Since...
Megabeauty
Xper 6 Age: 43 Why You Guys Should Start Rejecting More Women
A lot of guys refer to being in the decider role as "flipping the script" on a girl. By this, they mean to turn it into a tactic. They realize that girls have egos as well and once disturbed can cause them to chase...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 How Girls Play The Game
Seduction was originally an art women used to establish power in a patriarchial society, and it's probably for this reason that many would say women are light years ahead of men when it comes to seduction. It's taught...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 Sarmassophobes Beware: The Snowball-Boomerang Destruction of a Simple White Lie
At the surface, it may seem obvious to many of you why this is. But that won't stop you from defaulting to irrational defense mechanisms when confronted with an uncomfortable truth. Yet, I feel that writing this may...
ObscuredBeyond
Guru Age: 43 Where Men AND Women Are Going Wrong About The Whole 'Nice Guy' Thing
Most of us have heard the typical feminist narrative on the internet phenomena 'nice guy': - he's not that nice - he's only pretending to be nice to get into your knickers - he isn't assertive - he isn't attractive - he...
Anonymous
(30-35) Maybe She Isn’t PLAYING Hard To Get. Maybe She IS Hard To Get! 💎
Oh, women. The mystery even the most talented, intelligent and suave of men could never completely solve. Yep, this one's for you boys. In this take, I'm going to talk JUST about the woman who appears #HardToGet . We...
justbanANNAz
Editor Age: 31 The "Nice Guy" Debate
One thing I notice a lot these days is why nice guys are the worst debate. The reason for this is I can see a lot of this being misconstrued and loads of genuine, accepting guys changing their ways and becoming A-holes...
Cwis333
Xper 5 Age: 34 What's the best way to escape the friendzone? Make her jealous!
The friendzone is something that a lot of men complain about but seem to not acknowledge that it stems from things they do wrong themselves. Friendzoned men are too little of a challenge, they wear their hearts on their...
BritGuy212
Xper 5 Age: 29 