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Towards late June (couple months after her 13th b-day) her parents and I learned that her classmates have been giving her a hard time since Oct of 2014 and she kept this a secret. I noticed that she hardly ever go out with anyone, except with this girl that I now don't trust after learning what happened during this whole school year. I read her journal.

A girl in her school (shorter and lighter than her) named Dania that has been making her miserable for many months. Though others bothered her, that girl was/is her main tormentor. Two months later Dania came with her other friends and issued her an apology and stated how they can be friends. The following week, she told her that they were never friends and how it was just pretending.

Dania was looking for a fight with my cousin from the beginning. My cousin can own that girl and even some guys too (she's a good fighter) but she doesn't like hurting others. However, in March others were pushing Dania towards my cousin and the girl kept mocking and mildly shoving my cousin. My cousin at one point had enough and retaliated by pushing her and punching her on the shoulder. The girl then proceeded to slapping her before leaving. My cousin went to the office but both of them were going to get suspended.

Dania was pleading with her to please forget it. Anyway my cousin ended up crying too (she's always been a mainly A student who never ever got in trouble) and supposely the girl then apologized to her. They both shake hands afterwards and ever since, the girl has gotten friendly with my cousin. Though, she gave my cousin a false number when they exchanged numbers. My cousin confronted her about it the next day and the girl supposely said it was an error and this time gave her the real number.

I'm I right in not trusting that girl? I think the girl is acting friendly because she's trying to avoid getting in trouble base on how emotional she got when nearly getting suspended. I don't think that's real remorse.

I'm asking because I read an article about a woman named Lauren Casper who adopted a baby from Ethiopia and is learning and doing her hair. That made me think of full black and partial/half black who's parents aren't black nor do they know how to do hair and how their hair can be dry and matted and what not. I know not many, hardly any people who are non black know how to do African American hair. When an African-American woman goes to get her hair done or anything that has to do with her hair, her hair dresser is usually always the same ethnicity.
Would you trust a non black hair dresser who knew how to do your hair with your hair?
Sorry this question is not just for African American women, any black women of the world. (I had America on my mind when thinking of this)