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So my friend group is weird

This question is more for girls , I’d prefer a girls take in this question.

There’s one girl they all talk badly about since she’s more distant and I think I’m probably the same I just don’t know it because how would I hear it.

But I notice it with this other girl they act a bit miserable in her company and try to leave early etc.

Do they do the same to me?

I’m not negative at all, I’m up for dancing, karaoke but at the same time more of a quieter member of the group. I’ll have fun but I’m an introvert.

I do notice in the only one who gets hit on by guys. But I just say thanks and continue to have fun with my friends which is why I went out in the first place. I don’t talk about guys and I don’t bring it up like “omg did you see he spoke to me etc”. I just move on from it.

Yet whenever I’m not there they seem to do mroe on nights out and all enjoy it mroe.

Is it possible by me just being involved but more quit I “ruin the night” or lessen it or it’s better without me being there. I do have a more different sense of humour in that I am up for a laugh with literally anything and not bothered about embarrassing myself. But I don’t say or do things the group wouldn’t, like I’m not constantly making sex jokes or making a show of myself.

To define making a move, the woman would either ask the guy out on a date, or give him her number (without him asking for it).
Should a female do this or let the man take the lead? Assuming men take the lead if they are truly interested in a girl.