Should I make the move on my male coworker?

[Helotome]

So I have a crush on my coworker which I don't show any interest signs because its a work place. People tell me that I look distance many times. But the coworker seem to like me too but I don't know why he ain't making move on me like let's date or shit.

-He always smiles when he see me & greet me first
-He uses my name a lot then he will with other females coworkers
-He always navigates next to me that our shoulders may touch
-He is so welcoming to my touch * I accidentally put my hand of his right hand he didn't put them away *
-He gets so quiet when I enter the room
-He looks so nervous when i approach him or talk to him but still gives me a lot of eyes * eyes staring 🤣*
-Starring when i chatting with our males coworkers

I believe he is a shy guy around me but extrovert when i am not in the room.
- He initiate small conversations about I am doing when he knows what I am doing since we work in same school
🤔I don't initiate anything I feel like I should show interest too but I don't know how. I liked him first & should I confess my feelings or it's to creepy for a female to do that. What y'all think?

Updates

+1 y

💁‍♀️When people talk to me he always looks at me from distance even when he is doing something urgent even steal glance as he walks out from the room at me not at the person that talks to me

He voices change too that shit creeped me out couple of times 🤣

[oh_k789]

"I feel like I should show interest too but I don't know how"
He doesn't either.

"should I confess my feelings or it's to creepy for a female to do that"
He most likely shares that fear.

So, what to do? Rather than an open, immediate confession of feelings, you could turn the forwardness dial a little up. Find an excuse to (get his number if you don't have it yet) and call him asking something one evening. Talk about some place and how you would like to go there (would he too?).

[Helotome]

Actually I ask him by texting to accompany me somewhere and he told me that * i have lot of things to do in evening* add * honestly * then i reply to him * i found a friend to accompany me and thanks for reply & time* i add also * my grandmother house call me also 🤣* then he answers * ah ok* then after 4 mins he text me back * godbless* for text about my grandmother.
He was the head of exams coordinators too i believe he was busy. I know his member but he rarely text me first when the reality he greets me first

[oh_k789]

Frankly, if you tried once, it looks like the next turn should be his, not yours again.

[Helotome]

Yes you are right! I already opened the door for him. My friends said that he would ask where are you going still even if he was so busy and also he would already text you back * maybe next time I am busy these*

They are right. He didn't say next time he would accompany me. We have other single coworkers too but they don't stare at me or smiles when they sees me lol
My friends are females so I needed a male opinion.

Would you show stare or get nervous or get close to a female even thought you are in relationship?

He is so active in WhatsApp but he doesn't initiate a shit there when I am the one that always initiates texting with him.

Do he adores my looks only because male are visual?

[oh_k789]

"-He looks so nervous when i approach him or talk to him"

It's a mystery. Those are signs he likes you. But if he likes you, why didn't he say "we will go together another time"?

[knallpilz]

If showing too much open intiative feels creepy to you, only use it as a last resort, if at all.
Maybe there's some other way to give him hints and see how he reacts.
Or give him a really obvious "hint" and ask him if he would ask you out if he knew you would say yes. :D

[oh_k789]

"ask him if he would ask you out if he knew you would say yes"

That's as open as it may get, though.

[libsaretards]

"Coworker" is the key word here. It is never wise to date a coworker. Yes, it CAN work out, but most likely will not. If something happens to the relationship, then your workplace gets affected. Do not shit where you eat.

[spartan55]

I don't see anything that you mentioned that indicates he is interested. It seems like you are seeing certain things a certain because of your feelings for him.

[KrakenAttackin]

Dating at work is never a good idea, especially for a man.

[IHateBeingaMan]

tons of guys worldwide wish women did this more often but why do i get the feeling it will never become normalized

[Twalli]

Most guys would love it if women made the first move because it virtually never happens

[TheMajesticKing777]

You can only gain from the situation

[In_Trance]

Nope