Should I bother approaching men?

I go to a luxury office corporate building to study at the lounge almost daily. Professionals at prestigious firms sit there to work on their laptops or answer calls. By 5pm, the lounge would be mostly empty but there would be a few professionals scattered enjoying a drink with their coworkers at the end of the workday. Sometimes, as I walk by I notice some bored guys sitting there all alone by themselves, pretending to watch the boring movie on the huge screen but really just people watching. Today as I walked by, I noticed a few of them glance at me. I'm just wondering if a woman should make the first move and just approach them. (Because no guy would ever approach me). A few people told me that a woman should never take a man's role in mating process. Because they say that if a man truly wanted you, he would approach you. It is male nature to go for things that he really wants. If He is not approaching you then it means he does not want you enough. then you will just be someone he settled for. Is this true?

Should I bother approaching men?
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