I was wondering if it was OK for my Fiance whom I've been with for 6+ years to add a girl via his contacts (phone number).
(This is quite littary within a span of last week to today)
Context, The first day when she first met him she would stare at him all day, until he started to feel uncomfortable and tried to ask her if she was OK she ignored him and she proceeded the following day with having some random fellow to size him up and beat him up (they didn't fight to clarify).. (Yes you read that correctly) while he was able to squash this “odd” encounter out they came out of it on rocky terms but acquaintances. (I say rocky because she herself wouldn't confirm who the gentlemen was) but he was willing to be the bigger person and move on and try and make friends, and because she is known through his own circle of gym friends, he just figured that making peace would be the better option.
Fast forward 2 days of getting to know this lady at the gym and she is suspected of having feelings for him, he comes home and says that he is almost positive that she may like him based on the fact that she would stare at him and kept being “flirty” (his words not mine, also don't believe that all comments and compliments can be flirty) so we brushed it off. Next day she makes it 100% obvious by getting possessive over a girl he was communicating with at the gym to the point of him having to tell said girl that she needs to sorta watch out for her because even he knew it was just not normal.
Finally it comes up that yes my man is engaged and she storms out of the building and doesn't even show up to the gym the next day.
Fast forward the following day after this. They “talk” it out and try and remains friends. Which brings us to our question, she asked for his and his friends number so that they can work out and be work out buddies (to put it short). I told my fiance that he should get to know her more and maybe wait a month before getting her number. (Not poly by the way)
(This is quite littary within a span of last week to today)
Context, The first day when she first met him she would stare at him all day, until he started to feel uncomfortable and tried to ask her if she was OK she ignored him and she proceeded the following day with having some random fellow to size him up and beat him up (they didn't fight to clarify).. (Yes you read that correctly) while he was able to squash this “odd” encounter out they came out of it on rocky terms but acquaintances. (I say rocky because she herself wouldn't confirm who the gentlemen was) but he was willing to be the bigger person and move on and try and make friends, and because she is known through his own circle of gym friends, he just figured that making peace would be the better option.
Fast forward 2 days of getting to know this lady at the gym and she is suspected of having feelings for him, he comes home and says that he is almost positive that she may like him based on the fact that she would stare at him and kept being “flirty” (his words not mine, also don't believe that all comments and compliments can be flirty) so we brushed it off. Next day she makes it 100% obvious by getting possessive over a girl he was communicating with at the gym to the point of him having to tell said girl that she needs to sorta watch out for her because even he knew it was just not normal.
Finally it comes up that yes my man is engaged and she storms out of the building and doesn't even show up to the gym the next day.
Fast forward the following day after this. They “talk” it out and try and remains friends. Which brings us to our question, she asked for his and his friends number so that they can work out and be work out buddies (to put it short). I told my fiance that he should get to know her more and maybe wait a month before getting her number. (Not poly by the way)
