I talked to my crush finally and that's what happened?

[Anonymous]

Okay I approached him to encourage him because his team lost in a tournament... and he was sitting all alone and i said why not? And then I noticed him looking at me and I said "GO!" and went straight towards him and he couldn't take his eyes off of me and when i talked to him he was looking at me all the time and was making eye contact. After that he was always near me but never talked to me as well... Today he was just looking at me with his mouth slightly opened and yeah... I don't know what that means!! Why can't he just talk to me now that i made the first move?

[DaveJord]

Probably because you're only 18, so I assume he is just as young as you are and probably not as bold or mature as you to find the courage to figure out how to speak to women yet.

I think what you did was the right thing, and I would never discourage you from doing it again if it doesn't work out this time. Totally not your fault that this guys can't get over his issues. Some guys at that age just don't have the emotional maturity to find the courage even when its basically dropped in their laps. Trust me some day when he grows up completely he will think back to this incident and kick himself in the ass for being soooooooo stupid!!!

I do at 45 still remember my blown opportunities at 18 years old, because I didn't know how to approach women right or I had naïve and stupid notions in my head on how I thought it was supposed to work. Even after they made it very clear to me that I should.

[Asker]

I just dont get why would he stare so often if he doesn't care at all...

[Asker]

Maybe he does care but i just dont get why he didn't follow me back one year ago when i followed him first? Of course he had a girlfriend then but still... we could talk as friend's at least... I don't know

[DaveJord]

Well if you put out the effort and he doesn't have enough balls to talk... then forget him find a better guy.

If you see him stareing just wave at him, then ignore him if he doesn't wave back and then forget about him.

[Asker]

Well ok

[TheMajesticKing777]

Give it time, I'm sure the pieces will fall together

[Asker]

I don't know though... i am very anxious for some unknown reason

[TheMajesticKing777]

If I knew where anxiety came from I'm sure I wouldn't have it all the time, yours might just come from nervousness

[Anonymous]

It seems like he's shy
Maybe he hasn't been in a relationship before
I don't know
I find his reaction of being speechless, cute

[Opinion Owner]

by the way, this creepy old guy has been talking about you again, just wanted to warn you
Maybe you should make your profile private

[Asker]

Thanks But tbh I don't want to make my account private I rarely will be here I just really need some advice from different people in the situation i am right now even though I know it's dumb hehe but ok... Also he broke up with his girlfriend some months ago sooo he has been in a relationship before but maybe something else is going on in his head but thanks a lot❤️❤️

[Opinion Owner]

Do you have any common friends? Maybe you could ask one of your friends to find out what's going

[Asker]

Not really but i talked ro some of his friends yesterday they seem to like ne soo

[Asker]

Alsooo the weird thing is that i texted my crush six days ago but he still didn't reply to my text didn't even view it even though he is online

[ImNoOne111]

Its called getting freezed or at least sounds like it. Maybe try again?

[Asker]

I don't want to I am just afraid he will think i am clingy

[ImNoOne111]

Then maybe wait and see if he comes forward or otherwise, put yourself in a situation that he can come forward but look like it was accidental

[Asker]

Okayy

[ImNoOne111]

I dont want to dictate to you what to do as I first dont like it, second, I am not eligible to, third I shouldn't but if the guy is worth another try then why not?

[In_Trance]

Maybe he doesn't know what to do

[Asker]

Why? I think me encouraging him that day should have made him realize that i care but he just keeps on staring but that's it

[Anonymous]

I think he likes you but is scared or shy

[Asker]

Lol I don't knoww