So my crush finally said hi and flirted, what do I do next?

[Anonymous]

i finally got my crush to make a move, but now how am I to act? do I walk over next time strike a conversation? do I still wait for him to make a second move? do I just continue the eye contact and smiling? I'm confused and suck at flirting.

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+1 y

okay I am going up to talk to him about anything =) thanks for the help

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+1 y

we ran into each other 3 times, made eye contact, smiled and said hi, but both of us were too shy to strike a convo.

[da5id]

what move DID he make?

and no, I hope you're more than a cardboard with a face on it, so don't just stand there doing ONLY eye contact and smiling, if he already made a move then pick up where you left off, show modest interst and keep him interested, neither are you the bone that the dog has to chew in order for the good stuff to come out nor ar you the dog that chews on the bone endlessly and doesn't stop until something happens, think of it as playing with a dog, he put the ball infront of you and is waiting for you to pick it up and throw for you, in other words he showed interest,nows your turn to show some too and say ok lets see where it goes, talk about some activity you'd like to do, like go to the beach, or movies etc. and if he doesn't come up with "lets go there together this weekend..." ask him if he would like to do that with you

from there let it flow natural, but don't be upset if it doesnt, its not a big deal at first...

so if you are cute and a happy person to be around with any luck things will work out for the two of you,

best of luck

[noclue222]

Do you have his Facebook? or messenger? flirt with him there (like send a message), or send him an email or private Facebook message if you are a bit shy.

there's obviously something between you two, if you smile and give him good eye contact. and he has noticed, by saying hi and flirting with you.

all that he needs now is to make sure you are actually interested in him before he gets any closer to you. so don't be afraid to let him know clearly. CLEARLY! Try to talk to him, either in person or on Facebook etc, otherwise he won't understand what is going through your mind and will loose interest in you. (becasue you are confusing him).

[TessAshwin]

from Experience I would say, continue to be flirty and be the one to strike a conversation next time you see him. he has already done the first move.

please don't play hard to get and don't ignore him or make fun of him.

continue to chat and hang out and go slow and smooth. everything will fall into place.

[Abby24]

How long have you been waiting for him to "make a move"? Also, what did he do that you call flirting?

The next chance you have, definitely acknowledge that you notice him there. Say hi and start a simple conversation: what classes he's taking, how his day is going, etc..

[Anonymous]

you have to approach and talk to him. even if it's just a "hi" , make sure you are talking to HIM and not his friends (like don't walk up to him (if he is in a group) and address the group. make it clear you that you are talking to him and not the group as a whole. he needs to know that you are interested in him.

if you wait for him to make the second move, I don't think it will come. let him know you are just as interested. talking to him is one way!

[Anonymous]

how did it go?