My crush saw me flirting with another guy?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, I liked this guy (Christ). He's a player and flirt with everyone. I tried to move on. I flirt with him still but try not to have feelings. I have a crush on another guy (Jose). He knows I like him. I even asked him out, he said he would love to but he wants us to get to know each other a little more (we knew each other for 1 month by the time I asked). Yesterday Jose saw me and Christ flirting. I text Jose afterward asking how is he doing and he replied ":(" I asked him what's wrong then he ignores my text :/ Is he jealous what do I do now? We're not exclusively dating so I'm not cheating but he won't talk to me now I really like him what can I do?

[Anonymous]

He's jealous. Don't pursue him if he's a player. I'd focus on the second guy more and keep things flirty and light.

[iUnderachieve]

I wouldn't say jealous probably just hurt. He probably felt like you really didn't care about him

[Asker]

He's the one who "rejected" me when I asked him out pretty much... I was hurt too...

[Asker]

And I didn't know he was there. I didn't intentionally do that. If I know he was there I wouldn't flirt with that guy... :(

[iUnderachieve]

He rejected you probably to see if you were the girl he wants to chase and have long term relationship. Which is why he wanted to get to know you better. Now he is probably questioning it and attempting to not jump to conclusions.

[JustinX]

yeah he's definitely jealous... he feels bad for himself that you flirt with another guy

[Asker]

We're not dating, yet he's the one who "rejected" me when I asked him out... I felt bad too you know I felt like he didn't even like me that much...

[JustinX]

did he really reject you or no time to have a date with you? he like you... if he dont then he won't send you :( emoticons

[muldoon99]

Probably jealous. Who do you liken more?

[Asker]

Of course Jose. Christ flirts with EVERYONE and yes I'm 100000% sure he will get my heart broken. Jose is a nice guy...

[muldoon99]

If Chirst didn't flirt with EVERYONE. Then who is your pick?