Was this guy flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

we were sitting on my friends bed and he was leaning towards me, he laid his head on my shoulder while laughing at something. He also would lightly touch my leg/thigh or arm to get mt attention. As he was sitting next to me at one point he reached over me (to my other side) to get something out of my hair, it startled me a bit because I didn't see it coming. He also took my phone and just started taking pictures of me randomly? The last time I saw him a few months ago he got my number and he always hugs me and touches me on my arms/legs or even leans over on me. I guess u can say he's teased me before too, he's called me "good weird", and would do things like block me from getting into a room without a magic word, or just take my phone sometimes.

[ChrisMaster69]

He is, however the not letting you in room and taking your phone are boundaries you need to put in place and say no, that’s a sign of someone trying to be controlling.

the rest is flirting. Just make sure they are not trying to control you.

[Asker]

You think so? I kinda thought he was just being playful

[WhitneySnow]

Agreed

[ChrisMaster69]

If at the time it was then yeah, however I tend to view things like mobiles as personal shit and ask.

He’s flirting but just keep an eye on boundaries

[Asker]

I get that, it does feel weird sometimes. I tend to just let it go though lol

[WhitneySnow]

I get that he’s just flirting but my first thought would be to go psycho if a guy took my phone. That’s personal to me. I probably wouldn’t actually do it, but it would be my first thought.

[ChrisMaster69]

Learn to stand up for yourself, being a little strict with stuff tends to keep the other person on their toes. Nothing worse than someone taking you for granted, it also works for spotting the odd fickwit.

[Asker]

@WhitneySnow maybe I'm bad at noticing thing like that 🤔

[Asker]

It's funny u say that because I actually have been making a point to stand up for myself more, it's a issue a have. So thank you!

[ChrisMaster69]

No problem at all, also a girl with confidence does come across as attractive and more fun

[Asker]

Yea, my confidence took a hit after a bad relationship but I'm doing better now. Still have a wasted to go though 👍🏼

[Wise4myage]

Yes, he sure was. Did you like it?

[Asker]

I think Im too confused to know yet lol I don't know why but him getting stuff out of my hair unexpectedly just really stood out to me though

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, I can see why. Take your time with this guy and see how it goes.

[Asker]

Will do lol and u say u can see why, but what do u mean by that?

[Wise4myage]

It seems to have had quite the effect on you.

[Asker]

Ah yes, because I feel like grooming someone is kinda intimate

[Wise4myage]

Exactly.

[WhitneySnow]

Omg he’s flirting with you

[Asker]

I think so too, it's just weird because of the friend group. Sometimes it feels like he's trying to hide it (but failing lol), but other times I question if maybe he's just being friendly. But at the same time I feel like deep down you kinda just KNOW when someone likes you. Ya know?

[WhitneySnow]

Ikr!!! He’s def flirting.

[spg12212122]

Definitely flirting but he seems respectful..

[Jim___Blakes]

Yes he was clearly flirting.

[Asker]

but what if he can't outwardly express it because of our friends?

[Jim___Blakes]

I think flirting is better

[Anonymous]

Definitely flirting

[Asker]

Everyone is saying that so I'm not crazy lol