So we were at the gym and this guy accidentally bumped into me. He apologized for it and I said it's ok. My crush was with me and called out to him (he was wearing earphones so he didn't hear him the first time) so my crush called out again and this guy then took off his earphones and my crush told him that he just stepped on my yoga mat on the floor (which I think he didn't), the guy looked confused and said he has own yoga mat, so my crush repeated what he said earlier and kind of told him off. I was kind of surprised by this as my crush doesn't really notice all these things and doesn't care for it either.
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Did my crush get jealous of this other guy for bumping into me?
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Umm it kinda sounds like maybe your crush got a little jealous luv!
I mean for him to specifically call that other guy out and say he stepped on your mat, when it didn't even seem like anything happened, is fishy. Like why go out of his way like that?
And you said normally your crush doesn't really pay attention to stuff like that either. So for him to not only notice but then basically tell the other guy off is weirdly possessive.
Guys don't usually do that unless they feel a little threatened somehow, you know? My theory is he saw you two interact even briefly and got jealous.
I'd say next time you guys are alone, casually bring it up and be like "that was random how you called out Tyler at the gym..." and see how he reacts. If he plays it cool but gets all nervous, I'd say your crush is probably into you too!
Keep me posted what you think! Sounds promising he could be jealous if he's acting outta the ordinary like that.
Your guy is confrontational! He was just showing off trying to protect you and your possessions. Not in a good way. He should have accepted the other guy's apology, like you did.
That's the weird thing though. He is NOT confrontational. He actually avoids confrontation unless it's serious. He's very laid back and chill.
Your crush knows you like him, so why not ask you out? You just do this skip and dance at the gym a few times a week, chat outside the gym but nothing else happens? You’re too scared of messing up the dynamic or scaring him off to ask the questions that actually matter. Whether your crush got jealous is not what matters.