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Would I be fair that if abortion was to be ok without reason, then it should be a choice of man whether or not to be legally responsible for a child that is born? If a she decides she made a mistake and didn't like the outcome apparently its seen as ok to reverse, opt-out of the consequences. But for a Man, everyone views it as he needs to be responsible for his action and what he created... Otherwise as it were before, its grants control over another person removing any say in the matter.

At the end of the day, it takes two to create. Two enter into a relationship, but only one to end it... Wheres the equiquality in that? Where else do you get a reversal card in life? Commit a crime, bad financial decisions, guys decides who he slept with was a mistake, fired for shitty performance, none these you can say redo on... Its creates the such a reckless ideology surrounding what is the core to our existence...

Tbh most would just leave I’m asking out of curiosity for myself because my girlfriend of 2 years (21) is leaving for a job opportunity in a different province. I’ve been through lots of shit with her, still love her after the wrong she’s done (saying it like that makes me feel sick but I do love her). I’ve half ass caught her on multiple occasions up until she caught an STI and I tested negative after almost a year of having unprotected sec together (that one broke us up for around 4 months until I saw her at a bar hooked up and got back together). I’ve snooped through her phone found texts between her and this one guy in the past meeting at a hotel while we were dating, I caught her texting another guy on multiple occasions on snap chat once she waited for me to fall asleep to rub herself and I’m assuming sext him in my bed while she thought I was sleeping (though I didn’t read the messages, I knew it was a guy she slept with in the past though and I know she was touching herself for certain), another guy she was really secretive with while we first started dating, one time I caught her dancing on a guy at the same bar I was at with her (unfortunately I lost my cool and blacked out on the guy who I later found out was the guy who met her at the hotel), one time when we were fighting she said she was going to a party with the same guy too. As I write this it breaks my heart because I’ve truly loved her for so long, I wanted to marry her and she has treated me as nothing less than worthless and I would never have done that too her under any circumstances. anytime no matter when in the relationship she was never willing to talk to me about it, she painted me out as jealous, she’d say I’m crazy, she’d say that’s why “we broke up for so long too heal” and the list goes on and on but tbh I’ve never gotten a real genuine answer or proof otherwise she’s cheated on me and I want to give her one but is it unfair to give her one last chance if she comes clean?