Personally I would steer clear of that. If you feel like you’d have issues building a relationship with someone based off past trauma, then you should be single and focus on healing, rather than risk adding another negative situation to your list of bad experiences. I also wouldn’t continue hooking up with him. It’s just that sex complicates things, and I personally don’t know anyone that could be in a friends with benefits scenario that has any real longevity, without someone catching feelings and it’s usually the girl. This only complicates what’s supposed to be an uncomplicated, no strings attached situation and you’ll end up feeling hurt and used.
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That's your chance bro, even tho you don't have a serious relationship for now you should officially confess before he goes cause then he can't flirt with the girl (if he's a nice dude)
GO FOR ITTT!!!
I HOPE YOU ALL THE BEST
The man seems like he's got options. He doesn't have to settle with you because he has his own pick of the litter. Are you okay with him going away (and possibly never seeing him ever again)? Wait, is he moving away? If you're okay with him being gone, then there's no need to waste energy pursuing something "serious."
Now if he comes around and professes to you, then the ball is in your court.
Definitely go for it. Might be the best fuck you ever had.
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