Should I go for it?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on my friend and im pretty sure he kinda feels the same but i don't want to ruin our friendship what should I do?

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And we are in a friend group that we call a thrupple i mean it makes me happy but i just want the couple part

[blackgaletiger]

hang out more in different places and slowly introduce the topic each time. That way its not considered a date and your still able to act yourselves and you can slowly communicate the idea of a relationship naturally. that way he isn't through off by it all that if your not willing to confront him directly by making a move.

[Asker]

Oo i like that idea is it a bad idea of its a coworker?

[blackgaletiger]

That should make it a little easier. You guys can hangout after work. You work hard and must be hungry. Not a bad excuse to hang out at a place to eat

[Anonymous]

I say make a move on him.

[Opinion Owner]

Can't you just chat with him one on one?

[Asker]

We do all the time its just that topic was never brought up plus we're coworkers and he doesn't date coworkers

[Opinion Owner]

Ugh, yeah it’s not a great idea to date co workers.

[Guy13]

Yes, go for it...

[Guy13]

How about you two speak and go grab a cup of coffee or sit on a quiet bench and be honest with one another?

[Asker]

We do all the time its just that topic was never brought up plus we're coworkers and he doesn't date coworkers

[Guy13]

You are in a mess. Back of the Boyfriend idea here... We want what we can't have !!

[Asker]

Very true

[Guy13]

Try to keep it together moving forward and hope Santa don't bring you no Coals...

[Charliefretz329]

Tell him