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Hey everyone ☺I'm in a little bit of a problem and hoping some1 can give me some good advice. last year was the start of everything that went wrong in my life. my wife that I married that year started losing weight and going out to clubs and bars, at first I didint mind kuz I'm not a control person I expect the women I'm with to respect our relationship me and her self, long story on that was it was the wrong choice I loss the home I had my puppy chihuahua that was like my best friend because I don't like going out to clubs and bars a lot of shit pops off and that's jus not who I am anymore I don't like shooting guns fighting for no reason or stealing, with the divorce I also loss my self worth and confidence in myself as of recently things hav changed a little bit for the better I moved back to mom's temporarily till I can get back on my own... Now the problem with this is that I haven't been able to find a job that will help me be able to maintain myself in the real world. I'm very much grateful for my mom letting me stay with her but honestly I don't really feel like they care much about my well being at all when I helped them move into there new apartment I came to realize after we were done they threw away the only bed I could sleep on so I slept on the floor for 6 months... they really don't do anything for me beside make life for me harder they both have well paying jobs but there's never food in their fridge which is kool kuz I'm able to feed myself it's jus wenever I put food in the house it disappears in 2 days tops😯 am I wrong for feeling like the only way I'll be happy is to have my own place of peace and try to get it by any means... even if it means selling drugs and doing all the dumb shit I used to when I was younger? I don't know what to do GAG please HELp I FEEL LIKE IM GOING IN*uckingsane! Srry about being anonymous I usally show who I am its jus this topic is pretty embarrassing for me.

Feel free to be as brutal as you like. So my girlfriend broke up with me 3... maybe 4 weeks ago, I've lost track of things like days and weeks. Our relationship (if you can even call it that) lasted less than 2 weeks. She had a lot of baggage but I wasn't aware that it was going to affect her feelings about our relationship so drastically. Thing is we weren't together long (I know for certain we've as of now been broken up for longer than we were together) but she wormed her way further into my heart than anyone ever has, faster than anyone else (kinda scares me). Now that she's gone life just seems gray. I don't enjoy anything anymore, and bad things just don't even faze me. I feel like my life went from full HD to grainy black and white in an instant. I have no motivation and barely get out of bed except to go to work. I honestly can't see me getting over her anytime soon. Frankly, she was the best girlfriend I've ever had. I spend nights listening to depressing break-up music (mostly Linkin Park) and even crying (I haven't cried over a woman since my first love back in high school). I miss her horribly and sometimes talk to myself like I'm talking to her, saying things I wish I'd said.

My depression is leaking over into every area of my life and people are taking notice, but I couldn't care less. Today one of my closest friends from work asked me why I was "having a bad day" and "why I had to make everything so hard". I didn't even bother replying because I'm sick of telling people I'm fine when I'm not, even though I can't exactly tell them what's going on. 80% of my brainpower is spent thinking about her, us, things I might have done wrong (She said when we broke up that I'd done nothing wrong but somehow I doubt it), ways to convince her to come back (all of which I end up discarding because I believe she just isn't interested in me on any level now), and even things I would say to her now if we got the chance to have a conversation. Am I pathetic?

Vitiligo is a skin condition in which some areas of the skin are lighter than others. I have vitiligo on my shoulders and on my, well.. groin area. It makes me very reluctant from dating girls because I know that if a girl rejected me because of it, I just don't think I could recover from that. I know it is cowardly but it scares me quite a lot. I am trying to get over it. So because of this, anytime a girl wants to go further, I stop her.

How exactly do you go about telling someone that you have vitiligo? I want a serious relationship but at the same time, I am 19, I want to have some fun and I don't want this stupid thing to get in the way of ant of that. I have been on a couple of first dates where the girls want to jump straight into bed, if that is the case what do I say? Just say nothing? A quick side note right before we get into bed? How would you react if someone told you?

Ultimately, I guess I am just looking for some opinions as to what a girl would think if I told her as well as how and when would be the best time to tell her.

The poll may seem a little silly but as I said I want to find the right girl but if along the way there are girls who just want sex, then I wouldn't mind pursuing that and I wouldn't mind knowing what they think prior to doing it. For the 'would/wouldn't deter me' part assume that you had already decided that you were going to sleep with me/the guy. Lol.

This image isn't me (obviously) but the girl in the picture has a similar skin tone to me, so it looks similar to this.

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