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• I have a male friend who is bisexual.. He told me few weeks ago he is recently interested in guys rather than girls. He just had a guy ghost him last month We are super close coworkers and became friends at work. He is really sweet, he always texts me if im coming in tonight or he asks the boss to pair us up at work He compliments my jewelry, or if i curled my hair that day he is the first one to notice. Once after our shift i told him i was cold and he invited me up in his flat made me coffee, gave me one of his hoodies to wear. He showed me pictures of his family and told stories about them. Next day i showed up at work wearing his hoodie. He complimented that it looks nice on me. I wore it through the shift and i wanted to give it back to him but he said i should keep it in case i'll be cold again. But ofc i gave it back because i didn't want to steal it. I talked to one of my other guy friends once and he told me jokingly that i cheated on him. Then he started telling me things like that guy is hot/ who is that pretty blonde over there? I told him that she was this handsome guy's girlfriend the next day i pointed at him and told him that is the boyfriend of the blondie He remembered that i said he was handsome and commented on it that if i think that guy is handsome than my bar is really low. So i asked who is handsome then, like where should the bar be. He said "me".

Or this other time he said he likes it when some1 is cuddly I asked him why he told me that. He said no reason, but asked:why? Am i not cuddly? Also laughed it off.. He is always teasing me tho with my height and basically with everything. But he also said my friends were pretty girls but didn't include me.. But him mentioning that he checked this guy's pics and my friend being pretty or so on, maybe all this could be just him making a new friend?

So my boyfriend saw a group photo and found my colleague looking better than me and he asked me her name and later on when I said that a colleague of mine is resigning so he asked me if it’s the same girl and also he asked me where is she going or joining and how is she doing and I feel that my boyfriend has a crush on her. Does this mean I should break up with my boyfriend? I asked him why he wanna know about her he said just like that - is my boyfriend toxic? Does this indicate that in future he is likely to cheat on me with someone better? Now we both have shared with each other our Instagram password and Recently from my Instagram, he opened her chat which u had unopened since past 3-4 days. It means he is checking her Instagram out for seeing her photos etc. So I’m really annoyed now. Does this indicate that my boyfriend does not really love me?

So, I started dating this guy a few months ago and he’s amazing. The only thing I don’t like about him is his relationship with his youngest sister. For reference, he’s 18 and she’s 15. I really liked his sisters at first and then his youngest sister started acting a little weird. Every other time we hang out at his house and we’re in his room, she barges in and starts talking to him and doesn’t acknowledge me unless I speak. We get along fine but I think she’s just a little shy. Recently, his youngest sister has been all over my boyfriend. I’m not talking about hugs, she’s constantly touching him, whining to him about things, I’ve seen them wrestle a few times, every time they stand/sit near each other she constantly touches him. Whether her foot is on him somewhere or she’s holding his arm or shirt or touching his abdomen. She also talks to him about inappropriate things, and when they sit next to each other she props her legs up on him. And on one occasion I saw him smack her butt. And twice he’s told me that he fell asleep in his sister’s bed (both of his sisters share a bed). And she’s made weird inappropriate jokes to him before. Once, she was on all fours looking out his bedroom window and she said “help *his name* I’m stuck”, with a weird tone, when she clearly wasn’t and got up after a few seconds of him not responding to her. I wish I didn’t feel so weird about their relationship because it feels odd to feel that way. But I can’t help how I’m feeling. I’ve tried to ignore it but I just get a really weird vibe and it makes me super uncomfortable. Also she reads smut so I know her mind isn’t pure lol. Before someone questions that.

*Also, for reference, all I have is an older sister. So I don’t know if that behavior is odd or not and I’m trying to figure it out*

So what do you guys think? Is it weird or am I just being insecure? I want to talk to him about it I just don’t want to put him in an uncomfortable position if this situation isn’t actually weird.