Is this attraction or is he friendly?

[Anonymous]

i apologize in advance if its too long.

• I have a male friend who is bisexual.. He told me few weeks ago he is recently interested in guys rather than girls. He just had a guy ghost him last month We are super close coworkers and became friends at work. He is really sweet, he always texts me if im coming in tonight or he asks the boss to pair us up at work He compliments my jewelry, or if i curled my hair that day he is the first one to notice. Once after our shift i told him i was cold and he invited me up in his flat made me coffee, gave me one of his hoodies to wear. He showed me pictures of his family and told stories about them. Next day i showed up at work wearing his hoodie. He complimented that it looks nice on me. I wore it through the shift and i wanted to give it back to him but he said i should keep it in case i'll be cold again. But ofc i gave it back because i didn't want to steal it. I talked to one of my other guy friends once and he told me jokingly that i cheated on him. Then he started telling me things like that guy is hot/ who is that pretty blonde over there? I told him that she was this handsome guy's girlfriend the next day i pointed at him and told him that is the boyfriend of the blondie He remembered that i said he was handsome and commented on it that if i think that guy is handsome than my bar is really low. So i asked who is handsome then, like where should the bar be. He said "me".

Or this other time he said he likes it when some1 is cuddly I asked him why he told me that. He said no reason, but asked:why? Am i not cuddly? Also laughed it off.. He is always teasing me tho with my height and basically with everything. But he also said my friends were pretty girls but didn't include me.. But him mentioning that he checked this guy's pics and my friend being pretty or so on, maybe all this could be just him making a new friend?

He is friendly

He is attracted

[shanika_blackwell17]

Hi lost I noticed your post said you wanted for males to comment only , Im an Taurus female and my Aries male friend/soulmate have been friends since highschool as well , they have an hard time with showing their emotions and they usually do like to pick with you to get an reaction, this is an good thing because they are introverts with good hearts so they love space but they also love to chase If u get what I mean. Give him attention but don’t at the same time. It will drive him crazy. It’s like you literally either have to take control to be intimate with him or ask him for intimacy. But to answer you , he is in love with u

[Nikki1989]

He seems friendly, but that teasing must be annoying.

[Asker]

No, its kind of a joke, like in a cute way. Like he says that when i update to the boss what work i've got done i should say that all i did was be in his way and not letting him work. (but he asked the boss to pair him up with me and no one else, all of his shifts)

[spartan55]

Gross

[spartan55]

You want to get involved with a bisexual guy and have to worry about HIV? Enjoy that.

[Asker]

Go away. I have absolutely 0 problem with him being bisexual, i was just confused bc bi guys tend to be more friendly with girls and im not sure about his intentions

[spartan55]

Excuse me? I'm sure he's unsure of your 'intentions' too. Did you tell him yours? No? Who said you have a problem with him being bisexual? Not me. You can ignore HIV all you want. Doesn't make it fake.

[als24]

I would say friendly but I understand the mixed signals you're getting for sure.

[Asker]

Aww man i really wanted him to like me:(